[MissCharlotte]

Can I drop an F bomb in your office?
Can I call you if I need to know you are still there?
Can I hate you?
Can I take a razor and use it on me if I promise it's tiny? Can I?
Can I love myself?
Can I love you?
Can I grow up? Can I?
Can I leave you messages and write you letters?
Can I? Huh huh huh, Can I? Can I? Can I T? Can I?

[krazibean]

1. yes
2. Thats up to your T. I wonder the same.
3. yes
4. NO
5. YES!!
6. yes.
7. yep
8. again, up to your T. i do it anyway, though haha.

Good questions. Ask you T all of these next time you see him. I'm just giving you my opinion answers.

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Can I drop an F bomb in your office?

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Ha. That would be like me asking T if I could blink in his office. Of course you can. Whatever you need to say to express yourself.
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Can I call you if I need to know you are still there?

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I think you established this with him today. Good job. :-)
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Can I hate you?

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Certainly you can. And while we are busy hating our T's maybe someday... someday within the process we can learn how to feel multiple feelings for them all at the same time.
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Can I take a razor and use it on me if I promise it's tiny? Can I?

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If anyone says 'no,' is that really going to stop you? Of course not. It's where you're at right now. Just be safe and let him know what's going on. Explore your reasons for doing this.
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Can I love myself?

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Would we be on this forum if we weren't at least learning how to?
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Can I love you?

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See answer for: Can I hate you?
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Can I grow up? Can I?

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Maybe rather than "grow up" you can discuss with him the specific parts that you need to integrate into a "grown up" you.
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Can I leave you messages and write you letters?

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And singing telegrams, too!

[ECHOES]

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And singing telegrams, too!


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OMG!!! Can you imagine!! I love this

[MissCharlotte]

Here's I am:



Here's my song:

My Ever Present Past