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Always in This Twilight
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#321
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That's really pretty! Also, maybe you knew this, but painting it black first can make colors pop more, or at least appear differently (one of the Paint Nites I did had us do that--I need to get back into those...). |
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Always in This Twilight
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#322
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Wow, that is a long day! I'm glad pdoc was validating. |
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Writing my way through...
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#323
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Poohbah
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#324
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Luna's offical mini me.
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#325
Artie I also really liked the painting and I'm not just saying that!
Kit- Yay I'm glad you've got such an amazing team to work for. __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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#326
I am a member of so many support groups. When it comes to asking for support, I don't know where to post. I'm feeling steamrollered already, and I haven't even got to the difficult bit yet.
There will not be any answers concerning my ailing relative for a little while, so it feels mildly pointless to bring that into session. Tomorrow ends one series of grief anniversaries, and the 15th marks the anniversary of the discovery of the deception. I have no frigging idea where to start... __________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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Always in This Twilight
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#327
Feel free to post here, Lost. My T once referred to these forums as a big support group.
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Always in This Twilight
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#328
Ugh, I'm really unsure how to deal with some things Dr. T said today... I understand his point, but... Maybe I should have just listened to the voice in my head that questioned whether I should bring this up or not...
He said at the end that he wondered if this would be another "conversation grenade," and I worry that it will be. |
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#329
Sorry to hear that, LT. I hope you can figure it out. Even if it is a 'conversation grenade', I hope you can work through it.
__________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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#330
I am fairly loose on cleaning stuff. I don't usually wash my cast iron even with water (there are a few rare exceptions) - I scrub with salt and reheat with oil. But every time cleaning cast iron comes up on some of my cooking forums - it is the biggest xxxx show. I am most amused by the hyper clean people who insist on soap - the soap insisters get all unhinged at everyone else - even though they are not eating from those skillets.
__________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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Writing my way through...
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#331
I'm eating lunch and all 3 cats are laying around me on the couch and table. They all want my sammich haha
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Always in This Twilight
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#332
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Thanks, Lost. I think it just sort of makes me wonder if I should keep seeing this T. We've worked through lots of things. And he's been great through the pandemic. But it also gets tiring to have to deal with the same issues again and again... |
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Always in This Twilight
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#333
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I have trouble dealing with cast iron because of the fact that you aren't supposed to use soap on it. The OCD part of me struggles with that. Plus, they're really heavy! |
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Luna's offical mini me.
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#334
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I personally don't think you should have to censor yourself in therapy. Why not see another T for one or two sessions? __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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Always in This Twilight
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#335
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Thanks, Lemon. I did send Dr. T an email. I was looking at T listings last night in anticipation of this. There were a couple I contacted before who seemed like possibilities, though no idea if they'd have availability now. And I feel bad that one I contacted and had a 15-minute consult with, then said I might be interested, then never said anything else. This was in October maybe? Or August? Last mini-rupture. |
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Luna's offical mini me.
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#336
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I've also used the "I'll email you" line but didn't. It was easier that way. I'd also feel guilty, but there's no obligation to continue and they could charge if they really wanted too and offer no free mins. I might wobble every now and then, but I genuinely do wish that I had actually left much sooner and not kept going back again and again, believing that we could work it out. I stayed because I was super attached and dependent on him. Now nine weeks out of therapy it feels liberating taking back that control and no longer having to deal with "the relationship" drama, of feeling like he didn't really understand it and making me feel like I was crazy for reacting the way I did. You're much stronger then you think you are- you don't knowt until you look back. __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." Last edited by Lemoncake; Apr 07, 2021 at 03:40 PM.. |
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#337
__________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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#338
I’m surprised that there are people in the world who would use soap in their cast iron pan. That defeats the whole purpose of the pan.
Good energy to those of you who are struggling at the moment. I’m in the boat as well. Maybe we can make tshirts |
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Always in This Twilight
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#339
Lemon, I worry that if there was a T I said I'd contact but then didn't, that they'd hold it against me. But I'd like to think they wouldn't. Because I'm sure that's really common among potential clients.
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Writing my way through...
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#340
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I would wear the tshirt. |
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