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Default Jun 16, 2021 at 06:57 PM
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Default Jun 16, 2021 at 07:02 PM
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I used to be afraid of this too for this subject and others. I always felt like I was tainting L. She always reassured me that I wasn't. I started asking about her experiences and thoughts on it. That really helped. I don't feel like I'm tainting her anymore.

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In that sense it isn't really a bad thing or a scary thing, just a thought that maybe I can replace with more constructive coping strategies. I am guessing your T understands and has compassion for your struggles, rather than judging you for being in such pain. But it's probably worth asking about it, if this is something that's coming up for you.
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It all depends on how twitchy/over-reactive they are. You decide what to tell them.

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Default Jul 20, 2021 at 05:57 PM
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It's not about her being over reactive as there's virtually no chance of getting hospitalised in the UK due to lack of beds, so it would probably mean seeing home treatment team; but having 3rd parties forcibly involved would cause all kinds of problems domestically. It's a no-win situation. Screwed if I reach out and ask for help, screwed if I don't.

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