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Child of a lesser god
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#561
__________________ The secret to eternal youth is arrested development.—Alice Roosevelt Longworth |
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underdog is here
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#562
Disney fairytales are too dark for me and too misogynistic. I cannot abide the Grimm etc ones. Those are terrifyingly horrible and misogynistic. I like fairytales that are happy at the beginning, happy in the middle, and happy at them end. A happy sandwich as it were.
__________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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Child of a lesser god
Member Since Jun 2015
Location: Tartarus
Posts: 19,143
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#563
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underdog is here
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#564
__________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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Poohbah
Member Since Jan 2020
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#565
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Tweaky Dog
Member Since Aug 2011
Location: England
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#566
If you've used a crisis support/de-escalation service - did you tell your T about it the first time, or if there were subsequent times?
I've just reached out to a text service for the first time. It feels...odd. __________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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Wise Elder
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Location: US
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#567
I've contacted a crisis line multiple times. Each time I tell L about it. It's part of my crisis plan to call them if L is unavailable.
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Member Since Oct 2018
Location: the astral plane
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#568
Usually I tell my therapist if I’ve used crisis supports. Typically if I’m still in some semblance of a crisis. Though not always. It’s just very situation dependent.
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Child of a lesser god
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Location: Tartarus
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#569
Psst, una, better start using those apostrophes!
Missing Apostrophe in Facebook Post May Cost a Man in Defamation Case - The New York Times __________________ The secret to eternal youth is arrested development.—Alice Roosevelt Longworth |
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Poohbah
Member Since Apr 2020
Location: Nowhere
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#571
With instagram i always thought you followed someone and got new posts in your feed every time they posted but no i just clicked on a page and saw that i have not seen at least 8 posts from this page which i really love. How do you get every post without going through the dozen or so accounts you follow. Its kind of like fb which i hate as i have missed several important posts from a page that i follow and have not been notified of the AGM
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Poohbah
Member Since Apr 2020
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#572
Imdont understand the internet!
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Poohbah
Member Since Apr 2020
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#573
I also finished Totoro who is upside down again
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Tweaky Dog
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Location: England
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#574
That's really cool, BCM!
I think FB and Instagram decide what you 'want to see' based on posts that you interact with. It might be worth going through and liking a few posts on the pages and IG profiles you want to see more of. I've run into the same problem a few times. __________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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Always in This Twilight
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#576
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I was going to say the same--well, I don't use Instagram that much, but I know Facebook it's related to what posts you interact with (which could just be clicking "like"). Also, if it's a group, you can go into the options for the group and choose to be notified of "all posts" rather than just important or popular ones (I'd tell you where to find that, but Facebook keeps changing where things are!) You can also choose a certain number of people and groups to classify as "important," and you'll see their posts first. |
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Legendary Wise Elder
Member Since Jul 2018
Location: CA
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#577
Nervous for my T appointment today. With Individual IOP T.
First, I wish she would just TELL ME if she is going to continue to see me after IOP or not. I feel like I am hanging by a thread. I really like her and I think I could learn a lot from her and heal with her but I don't like feeling strung along. If I lose her I will be really sad, crushed really, and I will be upset and will probably SH over it. She might know that which is probably why she is not telling me but it is really frustrating. Second, I didn't really understand what she was talking about on Friday. About taking care of my own emotional needs. Heck, do I even know what my own emotional needs are? I feel truly lost. Third, I don't know, we might discuss the shame I felt in showing her the SH scars. I thought we would discuss it on Friday and I probably would have brought it up but the conversation went a totally other way than I had anticipated. In her email she said she loved that I brought it up in email but she would like me to bring it up in session. So IDK if we are going to discuss it today or not. The shame isn't as unbearable as it was on Friday. So now it seems moot. It might still be profitable to be brought up though. HUGS to anyone who wants, Kit __________________ Dum Spiro Spero IC XC NIKA |
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Legendary Wise Elder
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Location: CA
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#578
Individual IOP T said she isn't going to continue to see me after IOP because of the hallucinations, the self harm, the past Sui attempts, I'm high risk and she says I am outside her scope of competence. But she's competent enough to see me while I am in program. Such bull.
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Legendary Wise Elder
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Location: CA
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#579
I expected that IOP T wasn't going to continue to see me but I'm still hurt. She's like, It's not a rejection. Yes it is.
__________________ Dum Spiro Spero IC XC NIKA |
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Tweaky Dog
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Location: England
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#580
Oh, Kit.
That really sucks. I'm sorry you're having to go through that. How long is your IOP program scheduled to last? HUGS Lost __________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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