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Old Oct 12, 2021, 03:30 AM
Merope Merope is offline
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Hello, I’m thinking of doing something for my T, but not sure if it’s a good idea or if it’s weird and too much. May i please private message someone about this? It won’t be long, I just have trouble trusting my own judgement.

Many thanks in advance!

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Old Oct 12, 2021, 05:37 AM
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Feel free to message... Mainly because I'm a nosy so and so! Lol. I have given my T lots of handmade gifts over the years. At first I worried, but in the end it became just something I did. It really is hard trusting your own judgement, but only you know your T, and your relationship with her. Might be hard for anyone else to guage it right.
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Old Oct 12, 2021, 05:49 AM
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Feel free to message... Mainly because I'm a nosy so and so! Lol. I have given my T lots of handmade gifts over the years. At first I worried, but in the end it became just something I did. It really is hard trusting your own judgement, but only you know your T, and your relationship with her. Might be hard for anyone else to guage it right.
Thanks so much for offering! It’s lovely that you and your T have reached this comfortable level in your relationship. I’ll email you my dilemma. Ultimately, I know it’s up to me, but any feedback would be greatly appreciated!

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Old Oct 12, 2021, 05:52 AM
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You could also DM me if you're looking for another person to weigh in. I have given my T a lot of (small) presents over the years, as well as a few things that were handmade.
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Old Oct 12, 2021, 05:53 AM
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You could also DM me if you're looking for another person to weigh in. I have given my T a lot of (small) presents over the years, as well as a few things that were handmade.
Thank you! I’m sending it now!
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Old Oct 12, 2021, 06:49 AM
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Feel free to message me as well!
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Old Oct 12, 2021, 06:54 AM
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Feel free to message me as well!
Many thanks!
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Old Oct 12, 2021, 09:16 AM
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You can message me too if you want another opinion. I've given T and L lots of gifts.
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Old Oct 12, 2021, 09:26 AM
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