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Default Oct 12, 2021 at 03:30 AM
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Hello, I’m thinking of doing something for my T, but not sure if it’s a good idea or if it’s weird and too much. May i please private message someone about this? It won’t be long, I just have trouble trusting my own judgement.

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Default Oct 12, 2021 at 05:37 AM
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Feel free to message... Mainly because I'm a nosy so and so! Lol. I have given my T lots of handmade gifts over the years. At first I worried, but in the end it became just something I did. It really is hard trusting your own judgement, but only you know your T, and your relationship with her. Might be hard for anyone else to guage it right.
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Default Oct 12, 2021 at 05:49 AM
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Feel free to message... Mainly because I'm a nosy so and so! Lol. I have given my T lots of handmade gifts over the years. At first I worried, but in the end it became just something I did. It really is hard trusting your own judgement, but only you know your T, and your relationship with her. Might be hard for anyone else to guage it right.
Thanks so much for offering! It’s lovely that you and your T have reached this comfortable level in your relationship. I’ll email you my dilemma. Ultimately, I know it’s up to me, but any feedback would be greatly appreciated!

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Default Oct 12, 2021 at 05:52 AM
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You could also DM me if you're looking for another person to weigh in. I have given my T a lot of (small) presents over the years, as well as a few things that were handmade.
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You could also DM me if you're looking for another person to weigh in. I have given my T a lot of (small) presents over the years, as well as a few things that were handmade.
Thank you! I’m sending it now!
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Default Oct 12, 2021 at 06:49 AM
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Feel free to message me as well!
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Feel free to message me as well!
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Default Oct 12, 2021 at 09:16 AM
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You can message me too if you want another opinion. I've given T and L lots of gifts.

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