Couch 233: Nothing’s Ghana Stop Us Now

unaluna · Dec 15, 2021 at 10:51 PM

Okay new couch set up but we still have room on this one.

stopdog · Dec 15, 2021 at 10:57 PM

you are jumping the gun a bit

unaluna · Dec 15, 2021 at 11:00 PM

I dont wanna be caught snoozin.

stopdog · Dec 15, 2021 at 11:03 PM

Not you - I would never believe such a thing

unaluna · Dec 15, 2021 at 11:03 PM

So on facebook, a guy from my high school posted a photo of him with Ponch. Another guy, who is a photographer ergo i assumed very knowledgeable of current affairs, didnt know who Ponch was or what ,CHiPS was. I am aghast.

unaluna · Dec 15, 2021 at 11:04 PM

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Originally Posted by stopdog

Not you - I would never believe such a thing

Up all night!

ArtieTheSequal · Dec 16, 2021 at 05:32 AM

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Originally Posted by stopdog

If it helps at all - I think she could peacefully pass because you were not there. I don't mean you but it is like how sick animals go off by themselves to die or people who die right after the loved goes out for the first time to the bathroom or to get some food. I believe, seriously, that it gives the passer the space they need to go

Thank you sd. That does help.

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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight

I had a similar thought.

Thank you, LT.

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Originally Posted by unaluna

Really. Like i am by myself so much and always have been, i dont want to be having to take care of someone else at the greatest moment of my life. I dont need awareness of another's awareness. I dont even like going to movies or concerts with someone. Im always worried if THEY are enjoying it. I dont want to perform my passing.

That makes sense, Una, thanks.

I'll share all of this with h later.

ChickenNoodleSoup · Dec 16, 2021 at 07:55 AM

I'm a bit late, but I'm so sorry Artie!
As for your H, just respect whatever he wants. If he wants to talk, do that for a bit with him, if he wants space, give him space. Everyone grieves differently.

ArtieTheSequal · Dec 16, 2021 at 09:25 AM

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Originally Posted by ChickenNoodleSoup

I'm a bit late, but I'm so sorry Artie!
As for your H, just respect whatever he wants. If he wants to talk, do that for a bit with him, if he wants space, give him space. Everyone grieves differently.

Thanks CNS. He broke down again this morning and called out to work. He tried to work yesterday but being alone in his car (he's a courier) was too hard. He said he keeps yelling at himself "he was just a cat!" I told him yes he was a cat, but you loved him, and he loved you, you had a special bond and it's going to hurt for a bit. and reminded him that it's okay to cry. it's the first time he's lost a pet that meant anything to him - when he was growing up they had outdoor cats that never lived past a year or two, and we had Rascal for going on 15 years ever since he was a little kitten. We're going through pictures on my computer to find the best one, enlarge it/print and frame it to hang somewhere in the house.

LostOnTheTrail · Dec 16, 2021 at 09:36 AM

That sounds like a good idea, Artie. I'm sorry you're both having to go through this. No such thing as 'just a cat', though.

ArtieTheSequal · Dec 16, 2021 at 11:15 AM

Thanks, Lost.

unaluna · Dec 16, 2021 at 11:59 AM

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Originally Posted by LostOnTheTrail

That sounds like a good idea, Artie. I'm sorry you're both having to go through this. No such thing as 'just a cat', though.

I mean 80 pct of the internet is devoted to them!

ArtieTheSequal · Dec 16, 2021 at 01:34 PM

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Originally Posted by unaluna

I mean 80 pct of the internet is devoted to them!

Right! haha!

ArtieTheSequal · Dec 16, 2021 at 01:39 PM

Does anybody else ever get excited about a soap from a hotel and try to buy it online? haha. When h and I were in Jerome awhile back they had this Beekman 1802 goat's milk soap that we totally loved so we talked them into giving us a couple extra little bars. They last like a month and a half, and we have one left. I found their website and ordered a 9 oz bar for $15 for Christmas. That should last a good while! (It better for $15 haha but we deserve it. It's gonna be a difficult Christmas this year.)

FooZe · Dec 16, 2021 at 01:45 PM

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unaluna Elder Harridan x-hankster Member Since Jun 2011 Location: Milan/Michigan Posts: 39,834 (SuperPoster!) 12 66.3k hugs given	Dec 15, 2021 at 10:51 PM #981 Okay new couch set up but we still have room on this one.

stopdog underdog is here Member Since Sep 2011 Location: blank Posts: 34,722 (SuperPoster!) 12 1 hugs given	Dec 15, 2021 at 10:57 PM #982 you are jumping the gun a bit __________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.

unaluna Elder Harridan x-hankster Member Since Jun 2011 Location: Milan/Michigan Posts: 39,834 (SuperPoster!) 12 66.3k hugs given	Dec 15, 2021 at 11:00 PM #983 I dont wanna be caught snoozin.

stopdog underdog is here Member Since Sep 2011 Location: blank Posts: 34,722 (SuperPoster!) 12 1 hugs given	Dec 15, 2021 at 11:03 PM #984 Not you - I would never believe such a thing __________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.

unaluna Elder Harridan x-hankster Member Since Jun 2011 Location: Milan/Michigan Posts: 39,834 (SuperPoster!) 12 66.3k hugs given	Dec 15, 2021 at 11:03 PM #985 So on facebook, a guy from my high school posted a photo of him with Ponch. Another guy, who is a photographer ergo i assumed very knowledgeable of current affairs, didnt know who Ponch was or what ,CHiPS was. I am aghast.

ChickenNoodleSoup Grand Poohbah Member Since Apr 2017 Location: In a land far far away Posts: 1,574 7 1,304 hugs given	Dec 16, 2021 at 07:55 AM #988 I'm a bit late, but I'm so sorry Artie! As for your H, just respect whatever he wants. If he wants to talk, do that for a bit with him, if he wants space, give him space. Everyone grieves differently.

ArtieTheSequal Writing my way through... Member Since Feb 2020 Location: In the desert Posts: 7,218 (SuperPoster!) 4 5,754 hugs given	Dec 16, 2021 at 11:15 AM #991 Thanks, Lost.

FooZe Administrator Community Support Team Member Since Apr 2009 Location: west coast, USA Posts: 26,000 (SuperPoster!) 14 5,090 hugs given	Dec 16, 2021 at 01:45 PM #995 The new Couch is here: Couch 234: Ready, Set, Go!