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So lately the most bizarre thing has started happening, my t has started to make me breakfast. I really don’t understand am very confused by it.
I think it’s very sweet of her but it also sends mixed messages to me. Has anyone else experienced this? Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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No but that's very interesting.
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I felt bad saying no this morning but I just had my own breakfast and certainly don’t need anybody else to make it for me.
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In a treatment center I was in as a teenager one of the therapists who wasn't even my own brought me in Mcdonalds breakfast. I thought it was nice but kinda strange.
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That would be interesting i.e. fruitful to explore with her . Do you feel comfortable brining it in as part of the 'work' in your therapy. Might help her self-reflect as well...
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What were they going to make you for breakfast?
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That was nice of your t but kinda strange. It is kinda strange, it feels strange. I would understand if it was part of the work or I was struggling with an eating diaper or something. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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I feel I could bring it to t, I feel she would appreciate me saying it to her rather than talking about it on here but I just needed to hear what other people thought. Thank you for your response Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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My former T would every once in a while bring me a hot chocolate. But in 5 years that probably happened 3 times.
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I am intrigued and a tiny bit jealous. I would have given anything to have my former T make me coffee and toast. Or something similar.
It strikes me as a little odd. But not necessarily bad-odd. Just unusual-odd. Is she eating at the same time? Is it as simple as not wanting to eat in front of you without sharing? |
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It sounds like it's making you uncomfortable, so definitely worth exploring.
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She had made toast for me and herself, she asked if I wanted coffee and I said yes please but only if you are having one too. So I heard her running around and banging things. She then brought it in. I was so embarrassed. She has often ate an apple in front of me but this was a whole new level. In some ways it’s sweet but in other ways it’s painful because I don’t have anyone to look after me 🥲 Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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Ex T would sometimes offer me a candy or hot drink if she was having it too, after a while into therapy with her. In my case, looking back at it now, I think she wanted to check how I was doing as one of my issues was never to ask for help or anything else even if I needed it (ED, trust issues, abuse). With time, I ended up relaxing, speaking uo a little more while working on the issues and accepting a candy or whatever.
In a way I find it nice and caring of your T, but have no idea if something may lay under this breakfast thing, though I think you could bring up the way you felt. It’s worth exploring. __________________ Everything will be ok in the end. If it's not okay, it's not the end. |
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My therapist ans I frequently go out to breakfast, lunch, or dinner. It is not a big deal. Maybe just appreciate your therapist’s kind gesture and say thank you.
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