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Magnet
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#981
velcro, you are so lucky! It is hard to find someone who knows how to cut curly hair well.
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Writing my way through...
Member Since Feb 2020
Location: In the desert
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#982
Glad you enjoyed getting your hair cut, Velcro, and that it came out so well!
I absolutely love the salon I go to now that's near where I live. At first I thought they were way more expensive than like Great Clips or whatever, but when I thought about it, I was like, they're really not that much more expensive cuz they just charge one price for the shampoo/conditioning/cut/style and do all of it, where at Great Clips sure it can cost less, but they just spray your hair with water and you walk out of there dripping (well i do anyway as I have very thick hair that holds a lot of water lol) unless you pay extra for the other stuff so.... it's really not that much more plus they have tea and fresh-baked cookies at the salon. And the guy at the front desk who takes payments & schedules is a sweetheart. |
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Writing my way through...
Member Since Feb 2020
Location: In the desert
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#983
I returned the new laptop this afternoon, I decided the screen was just too small. Now I need to try to find a bigger one online as they didn't have any bigger than 15 inches at the store. Plus I want one that doesn't have that S Mode on it, I had never heard of that til yesterday, but it means you can't use any programs that aren't microsoft approved or whatever, and there's a couple things I use regularly that aren't.
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catches the flowers
Member Since Jul 2019
Location: Downtown Vibes, California
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#984
I read your post about the IUD @ScarletPimpernel. I'm so, so sorry you're having to go through such a sadness.
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Child of a lesser god
Member Since Jun 2015
Location: Tartarus
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#985
So I joined a hard of hearing only chapter of Toastmasters International. My first official meeting, I’ll be the Wordmaster, so I have to choose a word for the speakers to work into their talks.
I asked if there were guidelines and was told it should be a word that people kind of know but don’t use very much, like “bereft.” So there go defenestration, kallipygian, abd paraclausithyron. __________________ The secret to eternal youth is arrested development.—Alice Roosevelt Longworth |
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Wise Elder
Member Since Nov 2013
Location: US
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#986
I'm so grateful for L. Sadly, she will not be here for two weeks. She leaves on the 5th...the same day I get the IUD. I've asked T and L to be with me in spirit that day. I hope some couchies can be with me too.
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Always in This Twilight
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
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#987
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I would have been curious as to the kinds of talks they'd have given using defenestration! I hope you like the group. |
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Always in This Twilight
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
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#988
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Hugs, Scarlet....I can be there with you in spirit, too. |
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Always in This Twilight
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Location: US
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#989
So, this is really weird, in a good way: I went to a concert (by myself) in the next state over tonight. When I was walking out of the garage, I asked what I thought was a couple how to get to the park where the concert was. They were going, too, and when they learned I was there by myself, they asked, "Do you want to hang out with us?" I said OK, as they seemed nice (though sometimes I like to be on my own at shows). That's not the weird part.
First, it turns out that the guy used to teach in the county next to where I live and now works in the field in which I got my master's (health science), in the specific area in which I did my internship (and in which I applied for the PhD program), maternal and child health. He said the (major university) where he works may be getting another grant for the program, so he could see if they have any work for me. So then my daughter came up. I mentioned her being autistic, and the woman said one of her sons is autistic and has some specific quirks in common with my daughter, like I'd mention something, and she'd say, wide-eyed, "Really? My son does that, too!" (turns out she and the guy aren't a couple, just close friends, though they seemed more than that). In mentioning what her son is really into, the one was animals, and she said, "He really loves his guinea pigs." Me: "Seriously? Guinea pigs? I have them, too!" There were a few other things as well. We exchanged contact info at the end, so hopefully we'll stay in touch (and maybe the guy can help me with a job!) If not, then at least I had some nice conversation and human connection at the show. |
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Writing my way through...
Member Since Feb 2020
Location: In the desert
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#990
That's cool, LT, I'm happy for you.
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Writing my way through...
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#991
I'll be there in spirit too, Scarlet.
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Writing my way through...
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#992
H just left for a job to El Paso, TX so he'll be gone for about 12 hours including going to the pickup here in town, and stopping for gas and food. Nice quiet day for working with no interruptions. Yay!
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Always in This Twilight
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Location: US
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#993
Thanks, Artie! The woman, J, already reached out to say it was nice meeting me and that she was glad I got home safely, which I appreciated. Trying to figure out if there's a way to sort of navigate a friendship/acquaintance-ship without being weird?
What's interesting to me is that I met them in part due to Siri/Google Maps confusing me, which led to me missing the turn to the garage and having to take a big 10-minute loop around the city (there's a river in the middle, so I had to cross over that) to get back to it (while Siri kept telling me to do an illegal U-turn in the middle of a major road!). Which frustrated me and stressed me out--I'd never been to this particular city, so don't know my way around at all. But then it was like, "OK, maybe this happened for a reason." It ties into what Dr. T was saying the other day regarding my losing one of my freelance accounts (through no fault of my own--account is leaving the company I work for). He said he had a client who lost his job, and he was really upset about it, then 3 months later, he found a job he liked more and that paid much better. And how he likely wouldn't have left the other job on his own, but getting laid off ultimately led to something positive. That he doesn't so much believe in some sort of divine intervention thing, but it's a case where something that seemed bad ended up turning out well in the end. He was applying it to my job situation (I may be able to get more work from this company, or it could inspire to find something elsewhere, even full-time), but I'm thinking it could be a way of looking at life in general. (I'm really not sure what's going on with my somewhat more positive mindset lately, but I'll take it!) I do think at times of how many things--good or bad--had to happen to get me to certain places. Had I not had such a bad experience at my second journalism job (very critical boss), I wouldn't have been looking for new work (or at least may have stayed in journalism) and wouldn't have ended up at the company where I met my H. And then, of course, D wouldn't have existed. I'm more spiritual than religious, but it does help me to think that there is meaning behind things, especially the more negative ones. OK, I'll stop rambling now! |
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Member Since Nov 2013
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#994
That's awesome, LT! I do believe things happen for a reason.
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#995
I got stung by a bee today. Luckily, I was at the grocery store and went straight to the pharmacy and they helped me. Also glad I'm not allergic! Still, my thumb is sore, swollen and stiff.
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Tweaky Dog
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Location: England
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#996
It's great that the pharmacist was able to help you, Scarlet. I'm sorry your thumb is sore.
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Writing my way through...
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#997
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I think about all of that kinda stuff too... like, all of the things that had to align the way they did for my son to be in existence, and how I cannot imagine my life if I hadn't married h and brought him into the world... I think about it whenever I get upset with h - I can't ever really wish I'd never met him/married him because then I'd have never known the joy of knowing my son. I doubt anyone else would have taken me on back then (other than h) cuz I was a mess. Y'all think I'm a mess now, I was a real mess back then... |
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#998
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1. I don't think you're a mess. I think life and healing is messy. But not you yourself. 2. My guess is that all of us are better now than in the past. Least that's the hope, right? That's at least has been my goal especially with therapy: to learn and heal and grow. I was a handful in my past too. Look at how I was when I first started here! I was judgmental and confrontational. Definitely naive. And I still am sometimes. But I've also grown a lot learning from you all and therapy and just experiencing life. I think you've made huge strides, Artie! You seem more confident and self-aware. I look up to you and many of the members here. __________________ "Odium became your opium..." ~Epica |
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Member Since Sep 2011
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#999
There is a pridefest going on at my neighborhood park - It is super busy but hopefully it ends in time to walk my dogs before it gets super dark - my twitchy blind dog doesn't do well in large crowds. And he is twitchy enough just on a normal day. He is a very sweet boy but if he was a human I would want to put him down. I almost squashed ancient cat today because twitchy dog was being clingy and I tripped over him and into frail demento cat.
I am playing pickleball with a group of old women - we call ourselves the DOLs - decrepit(or demented depending on the day) old ladies __________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. Last edited by stopdog; Sep 25, 2022 at 03:33 PM.. |
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Writing my way through...
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#1000
Thank you, Scarlet!
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