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Default May 12, 2023 at 03:53 PM
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I've not been having much luck with my assigned CM/RCs.

The first one I had was a good guy & empathic, as we shared a lot of experiences. However, he left (I suspect the job got to him) and nobody bothered to tell me for a couple of months - only after physically inquiring in person when I turned up for a different appointment did I find this out & that I'd not yet been assigned a new one. I left that place I little while later for that and other reasons.

The one I've got now, seems a decent enough person, but seems to only want me to regurgitate how (exceptionally crap) I feel each week - he nods in the appropriate places and indicates he understands, but doesn't seem to want to offer anything in the way of suggestions or a plan to help me function better.

It's early days and I'm waiting for some of the other bits to fall in place (get a new PCP, Pdoc and hopefully a therapist) and I appreciate been seen so regularly, but frankly, just going over how I feel on a weekly basis without any obvious sign of a roadmap out of it is making me feel worse than when I started.

I'm thinking of basically stating this to him & cancelling those appointments until there's something else/concrete to try, but I don't want antagonize the guy, as he's my main point of access to getting help. Would this be the wrong step? Am I missing something obvious?
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Default May 12, 2023 at 05:46 PM
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I think you are identifying your needs and you need to express that to him. Maybe if he knows what you need then he can help.
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Default May 13, 2023 at 05:54 PM
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Sometimes we just need patience until the pieces come together.....HOWEVER there is nothing wrong with expressing your feelings & concerns & maybe get a time frame when those pieces are expected to come together. Right now you are kinda dangling at the end of a line waiting for anything to start happening & that is a horrible feeling. Communicating that & them communicating what is going on their end is how trust is built. Sounds like time for some real communication so they also know that you care & are interested in knowing their progress too

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