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#601
Sep 20, 2023, 04:24 PM
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thanks NP & LT. he can be a peach alright.
anyway the appt went okay, she explained the procedure (trigger for medical stuff)
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 Elio, LonesomeTonight, NP_Complete, unaluna, WarmFuzzySocks
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#602
Sep 20, 2023, 04:45 PM
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Hugs, Artie. I think it should be obvious that if you're worried, then you want support, not his acting like you're being ridiculous for being anxious about it.
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| unaluna
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#603
Sep 20, 2023, 06:15 PM
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I prefer to do things like go to mds/tests alone - other people are not comforting to me (they try- I just don't find them useful and it is worse to take care of them). When I was the support for my person - I needed her to tell me what she wanted and there were things that others did better and she had to ask those people for those things (we all agreed on who and what -but it was hers to do)
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#604
Sep 20, 2023, 11:09 PM
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Has he had the inside tissue of his penis scraped out and is he as nonchalant about a stranger inserting a curette into his urethra? This attitude that women's bodies are easily accessible and that even the most invasive procedure is no big deal is abhorrent. Its entirety possible for him to help you manage your anxiety without minimising your feelings and bodily autonomy. It's a big deal Artie and I hope you can find some compassion from someone who understands.
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| ArtieTheSequal, LonesomeTonight, unaluna, WarmFuzzySocks
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#605
Sep 21, 2023, 10:35 AM
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p.s. i can just picture his reaction if his doctor told him he needed to do that to him. he would be screaming malpractice or something I'm sure and trying to bully them out of it. |
| LonesomeTonight, unaluna
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#606
Sep 21, 2023, 01:19 PM
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Our comrade is so eloquent. I was just gonna say, "yeah he's a peach alright - the pits!"
 Ok, im not always funny! Eta - i got called for jury duty. I thought i was too old for this! Last edited by unaluna; Sep 21, 2023 at 03:42 PM. |
| ArtieTheSequal, LonesomeTonight
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#607
Sep 21, 2023, 03:48 PM
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I just read something in an email that kinda emptied my brain out in a good way - about making yes/no type decisions - "If it's not a clear yes, then it's no." It was like fresh air blowing through my brain and sweeping out a huge chunk of indecisiveness about L (I want to go back. No, I don't. yes, I do. No, i don't ad nauseum) and I feel very good again about stopping. I really like how that feels to me. I don't know if it really applies to non-yes/no decision, but for this, it works, and it feels good. I hope it lasts and I don't fall back into my ******** wishy-washy second-guessing of myself.
oops break's over. I went late so I'm all off kilter haha |
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#608
Sep 21, 2023, 03:48 PM
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I absolutely love the thought of you on jury duty, una.
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| unaluna
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| LostOnTheTrail, unaluna
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#609
Sep 21, 2023, 03:49 PM
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#610
Sep 21, 2023, 04:17 PM
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Hey dont make me older than i am! Im not quite old enough to run for president!
Moo, i would too, but you have no idea how full of arseholes this town is! I admit im one of them, but no match for any of them. You would not believe the women-haters around here. As mark twain said, because the dividends(?) are so paltry. |
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#611
Sep 21, 2023, 06:22 PM
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Oops, wasn't trying to make you older than you are, una! Rather, trying to give you something to look forward to I guess.
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| unaluna
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#612
Sep 21, 2023, 06:22 PM
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I shall going forward refer to h as "His Peachness". Especially since he is being extra-peachy today.
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| LonesomeTonight, unaluna
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Sep 21, 2023, 09:51 PM
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Sep 22, 2023, 12:22 AM
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#615
Sep 22, 2023, 12:11 PM
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True happiness comes not when we get rid of all our problems, but when we change our relationship to them, when we see our problems as a potential source of awakening, opportunities to practice patience and learn.~Richard Carlson |
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Sep 22, 2023, 01:45 PM
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#618
Sep 22, 2023, 06:36 PM
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I bought one of those snake toys for Penny, it reacts to movement and starts zooming around the floor - my friend has one and her cats love chasing it - but Penny's afraid of it! She's hiding under the bed now and won't come out.
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Sep 22, 2023, 08:21 PM
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#621
Sep 22, 2023, 11:08 PM
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Do you really want to keep engaging the freudian with talk of cucumber?
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Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
| atisketatasket, WarmFuzzySocks
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#623
Sep 23, 2023, 08:47 AM
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Morning couch. I'm worried about h again. He still has this ongoing abdominal pain (.5 on a scale of 1-10, 10 being the worst) that he's had for a couple of years now, about a year ago the dr did a full workup of tests including CT scans, etc and everything was normal; they concluded it was muscle-related since he drives so much. But this morning he told me it had started getting worse while we were in Oregon but he didn't say anything because he didn't want to ruin our trip, that it is now closer to a 1, and he said he is staying in bed all day. I'm going to call the dr on Monday and try to get him in soon. I'm not sure what to do until then. Meanwhile, the hospital called yesterday and I'm scheduled for my pre-op testing this coming Friday. I wish I didn't have to worry about him too right now, but I guess such is life...
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| Lemoncake, LonesomeTonight, unaluna
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#624
Sep 23, 2023, 02:07 PM
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Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
| atisketatasket, unaluna, WarmFuzzySocks
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#625
Sep 23, 2023, 02:18 PM
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 You can take him to A&E if it gets worse.
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