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Always in This Twilight
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Sep 10, 2024 at 05:50 AM
#901
Hugs to you, Lost.
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Always in This Twilight
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Yesterday at 11:24 AM
#902
Dear T,
Thanks for all that this morning. The chatting about politics and how dating is today helped get my mind off the surgery and helped me feel connected. And I'm glad you saw my comment on worrying about H as affectionate. Maybe I surprised myself a bit in saying it. I'll try to figure out some way to say that to him once he's not doped up on painkillers. As much as I'd like to email you an update that he got through surgery OK and is headed home, I won't, as I know that's your preference. I think maybe a big part of making our relationship work is appreciating it for what it is--for what you do give me--and accepting what it isn't and never will be, no matter how much I might want it. (And maybe it's the case for most or at least some other relationships, too.) I imagine that statement would make you jump up and cheer (if you did that sort of thing--that's more R-like). But those are easier words to think and type than to live. So we'll see. Maybe something to talk about Friday. Love you, LT |
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Today at 03:18 AM
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Hi R,
I'm in a weird space at the moment as regards our relationship. I can't tell whether you're trying to protect me from the impact of the new understanding, or whether you don't remember what it was. I wish there was a way to find out that didn't involve an awkward conversation. See you next week, Lost __________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
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