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Elder Harridan x-hankster
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#761
Well i ve been sad because a favorite poster of mine has gone missing. Not sure why. But i found her very supportive and nonjudgmental and for sure i was going to marry her not kidding this (n-teenth!) time that ive fallen in love with someone on the site.
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Grand Poohbah
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#762
It is increasingly quiet here.
Whilst you are all getting lost down memory lane with your typewriters and reminiscing about past loved ones, I have been eating my body weight in simnel cake. Very heavy on the marzipan, you would approve unamylove. I survived the swim yesterday, but only just. By jove, it was cold. As a result, must keep my blood sugar up, not sure that's how it works, off for another slice nonetheless. |
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Grand Poohbah
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#763
I am still here, please don't break your heart over me. It's hard, I know. My charisma is a curse in so many ways.
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Elder Harridan x-hankster
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Location: Milan/Michigan
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#764
I thought you drownded so i moved on. Oopsie!
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Roses are falling.
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#765
The truth hurts, but you know how it was always supposed to be Ben and Jerry. Ross and Rachel. It was always Una and @@.
Moo you deserve someone who truly loves you as much as you love them. Una just goes around breaking young hearts. __________________ |
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Elder Harridan x-hankster
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#766
I said, "Oops." Doesn't that count? I thought we were on a break!
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Writing my way through...
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#767
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Another great idea! |
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Grand Poohbah
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#769
You are only saying that so you can muscle me out and get a look in for yourself. You are Joey, no, even worse: Haagen Dazs.
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Grand Poohbah
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#770
Why is it so quiet here these days? Did everyone else grow up and move on? All resolved and uncomplexed?
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Elder Harridan x-hankster
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#771
We are worried about Charlie's pancreas.
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Writing my way through...
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#772
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Although come to think of it maybe it was her decision all along but she didn't have the cajones to terminate, so she just said those ****** things to me to get me hurt/pissed off enough to quit. See that's the stuff I've been posting/deleting lately. |
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Writing my way through...
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#773
Speaking of eating your weight in marzipan....
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Grand Poohbah
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Grand Poohbah
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#775
Have you read Mother Hunger? It's specifically about problematic mothers and our relationship with them so might not be relevant for you (I don't know your family situation), but the bottomless emptiness is very relevant to what she discusses.
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Writing my way through...
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#776
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SO complicated. |
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Grand Poohbah
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#777
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Roses are falling.
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#778
I bought that same book for my sister along with the book “I’m glad my mother X” by Jeanette McCurdy.
The eating is a just coping mechanism to deal with distress. It's good that you're recognizing parallels between your current relationship with L and past dynamics with your mother. Maybe CBT could help you challenge and reframe these negative thought patterns? You can heal from this Art. You just need to go slowly. You could also DM me if you wanted to talk about gym and exercise motivation. __________________ |
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Writing my way through...
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#779
Thanks Lemon. Yeah, I want to read Jeanette's book, maybe I'll order that one too.
I did go for a walk today on my lunch break, for the first time in a while. It felt good to be outside again in the fresh air. It actually gave me enough motivation that I am going for another walk as soon as I clock off work in 20 minutes. I've done more than my share of work today so I'm just coasting for the last bit.
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Elder Harridan x-hankster
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#780
Yeah remember how i said i surprised myself fitting into an old blouse? I wont even try it now. I gained 20 lbs this past year after i started on insulin. Dr said yeah that happens but ordering cookies and candies on amazon doesnt just "happen."
I think i was worried about losing my apartment. Cuz man i disappeared on myself. So now ive got a new glucose monitor and like hundreds of test strips so i am doing better about checking my sugar, not eating as much sweets, and recording my exercise minutes. Still trying to hit that sweet spot between not hard enough and too hard.
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I read jeannette's book, it was pretty good. |
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