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Yeah the heat is hard on people. I think i got dizzy today from retaining water from drinking too much. Dont be a hero. Af least lie down with your feet raised.
Yes. The heat is causing my shoes to feel tighter. My feet were swollen yesterday.

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Is the heat/humidity bad on the east coast? That could add to feeling bad and breathing when it is really humid can be a challenge if one is not used to living in a swamp
We have been stuck in an extended heat wave. Last night the heat broke slightly and it didn’t feel quite as humid. Today it’s supposed to be hot again.
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I sent a frantic email to R yesterday, expressing everything that I couldn't express through sheer emotion on Thursday.

Now I'm having a Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy moment as in 'Don't panic.'

Is 'I'm OK with it, but let me freak out first' something therapists have experience with?

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I don't think any of those people do anything and from the description the therapist has always seemed a bit arrogant (the "dr" thing would have ensured me spending no more than 5 min before walking out), and he is not good at holding firm boundaries, but other than that -I don't see what he has done wrong. I agree with his stance, as iterated here, on a lot of things. In his position, I would have been thrown by the idea of going by and checking out the new office before an appointment. I have been in similar situation with a client and my own office - which is odd because who cares what building a lawyer is in - but this was one of the mental health docket clients - and frankly I was not completely certain how they would react in the lobby or trying to check out my group's suite of offices and so on. I admit I had no idea why the client was telling me they wanted to see the office we were moving to and why they were bothering to tell me they were going to do it -but once they told me - I asked them not to. I couldn't stop them and did nothing to attempt to stop them, but it was a bit creepy and I warned my colleagues.
It makes sense that a lawyer isn't interested in a client's internal process and has no interest or skill in unpacking what's happening and making enquiry about what it means for the client. As a therapist, it's literally his job.
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I sent a frantic email to R yesterday, expressing everything that I couldn't express through sheer emotion on Thursday.

Now I'm having a Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy moment as in 'Don't panic.'

Is 'I'm OK with it, but let me freak out first' something therapists have experience with?
You would hope that they have experience of it, it seems like a well trodden path for some people. Maybe another question is what experience do you have of it and what is the value of it for you?
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My therapist made a mistake last week which I found humiliating and which caused her shame. It was a very intense session. She was shaken and that in itself was difficult for me to observe. Anyway, I have done something art-based on the back of it - I have created her mistake in a form which we can hold, change, unpick, literally do something with it. It has been such a valuable thing for me to do. I had a period of art therapy in my 30s after having been very unwell and I often think about the importance of what that gave me - the different forms of things, metaphor, creation, etc. It has a similar effect to that of somatic work or embodied endeavour in that I like experiencing the meaning in these different ways.
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Just 'cause the cake needed some icing...

I've just had a text from the grief support service I use informing me that my 'subscription' is coming to an end next week. I didn't realise that the weekly messages were time limited.

This is separate from everything, but another 'regime change'.

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Just 'cause the cake needed some icing...

I've just had a text from the grief support service I use informing me that my 'subscription' is coming to an end next week. I didn't realise that the weekly messages were time limited.

This is separate from everything, but another 'regime change'.
That's unfortunate. A quick search led me to this site with several different free support options for the bereaved in the UK.

Bereavement support directory

Hopefully you can find another support service (or two). Over the years I have had to do some deep dives into researching support services in order to find free support for myself outside of therapy.

There are a variety of them here in the U.S. Some are helpful to me and some...not so much. However, I find that it's very empowering to do the research, make contact, give them a try, and (hopefully) find a helpful resource for myself that can be used as needed.
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Thank you so much, Inky.

I'll take a closer look at that link to see what I can find.

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