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Always in This Twilight
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Thanks, Lemon! That's nice to hear. I think the office stuff may have been urgent in the sense that it could have been postponing his move. So he might have had to contact the moving company to postpone, his coworkers, etc. Though it seems like it could have waited until after my session maybe? |
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Tweaky Dog
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#982
I should say so, considering you're paying for his time!
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Roses are falling.
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It’s his responsibility to manage his business, without it impacting on you. __________________ ![]() Last edited by Lemoncake; Today at 03:58 PM.. |
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![]() I often have interrupted sessions; the most I ever had in one session was five, and they were all different things (she did apologise and make up the time at the end). Sent from my SM-A526B using Tapatalk __________________ To the world you might be just one person; but to one person you might be the world. |
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Always in This Twilight
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One positive thing about my ex-T is that she kept her phone in her purse turned off during session. Ex-MC always had his phone on (and not on silent, so I'd hear very clearly when he got texts, rather than just a buzz) and would sometimes say "I just have to check the number." The worst was a couple times when he said "I have a couple potential emergencies brewing, so I have to check." He worked with high-risk teens (plus, at the time, his wife being sick). Those times were difficult because it felt like any moment, he might get a text and have to end the session. Once, he did take a call from a client, thinking it was an emergency (he stepped out of the room), then came back a minute later saying it was not an emergency. |
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Always in This Twilight
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Yeah, it was difficult, especially with him turning off both video and audio, so I was just there, having no idea what was going on or how long he'd be. It might have felt a bit different had it been in person and he'd stepped into the hall or something. The one time, he put audio on for a second and said, "Sorry, LT, I just need one more minute." Which, it's good he updated me. And I understand it was probably something urgent. But I wish it could have waited. |
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Always in This Twilight
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#987
Yeah...he did make it up, but it made the session feel disjointed. We had to figure out what we were talking about and do our best to resume. It wasn't anything particularly intense, thankfully. Unlike that session where we were trying to work through a rupture when his wife called in the middle to alert him to a tornado warning and try to convince him to step out of his office until it was over. That call he took right in front of me, which was a different level of awkward! |
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