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Always in This Twilight
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#181
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Thanks, Lemon, I managed! No free water here at venues, unless it's from a water fountain. They charge $6 or more for a bottle of water. Seems like it's just setting people up for heat issues in the summer. Actually, this one indoor place I used to go to more regularly used to have pitchers of water and cups available, though I think they stopped that after the pandemic. I hope you enjoy your September concert! |
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Wise Elder
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#182
I'm a cuddler, but not when I sleep. We have a split king and stay on our sides of the bed. We don't even share blankets. My main problem at night is not H. He comes to bed after I'm asleep and my Seroquel knocks me out. My problem is my dogs. All 4 sleep in bed with us and for some reason 3/4 are almost always on me (one on my head, one at my knees, and one at my feet). The youngest won't even get up if I need to move.
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Child of a lesser god
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#183
__________________ Ich weiß nicht, was soll es bedeuten. Daß ich so traurig bin. “I do not know what this can mean. I am so very sad.” —Heinrich Heine |
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Writing my way through...
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#184
last night I dreamed that h and I had hundreds of boxes of new shoes in our basement (we don't have a basement in rl) in our sizes, and all the sizes our son ever wore. there were neighborhood kids there and we told each of them to pick out several pairs each. I found some really cute sandals for myself. and a pair that would fit my sister.
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Human Feeling
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#185
That sounds bizarre, but fun on the dream scale of things.
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Writing my way through...
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#186
i could have opened a dream shoe store hahaha!
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Always in This Twilight
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#187
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That is really interesting! Maybe a sign you should go shoe shopping? I had a really weird one last night that I'm sure Una would have a field day with, but not sure about sharing it... |
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Elder Harridan x-hankster
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#188
Im still formulating freudian hypotheses about all those shoes! But i can multi-task!
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Roses are falling.
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#189
My interpretation of the dream is that it’s about having choices and direction.
From oh the places you will go: “You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself any direction you choose." The hundreds of boxes of new shoes in your dream could symbolize the choices available to you. The shoes fit = indicate that these opportunities are well-suited to you and those close to you. Giving shoes to the kids was about a desire to share your good fortune or to help others find their path. A pair for your sister suggests a concern for her well-being or a desire to support her in her journey as well. Maybe I should be a T? ![]() #Hit the $150 dollars __________________ ![]() |
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Writing my way through...
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#190
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Human Feeling
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#191
Feeling raw is a full time job.
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Wanderer of Distant Stars
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#192
(((Hugs))) @LostOnTheTrail - I know the feeling all too well. I hope things improve throughout the course of the day. Thanks for all the advice @Lemoncake - I will look into more support, this bully in me does a fair of beating every day. I really appreciate what you had to say, it really helped me think about things. Radical acceptance is key, and I think giving my bully a name and a persona has helped pull her out of me and address what she does to me.
I think this whole shoes thing is so great @unaluna awaiting the interesting hypothesis too!! @ArtieTheSequal - being from NYC shoes was such a big part of my life! I used to have so many, some I never even wore. I miss heels though I have to say, I used to enjoy wearing them. Being a bigger girl now, even cute wedges for the summer are a challenge, but I am hoping by this time next year, I would have made a dent in this whole weight issue. On the therapy front, I totally overslept and missed my appointment this morning, which resulted in an onslaught of shame and self-hate. I have come to the realization that no one in my entire life has hurt me as much as I have hurt myself over the years. __________________ Tales of Love, Motivation, and An Interesting Journey - Please Subscribe to my Website on WordPress: Inspired Odyssey's Path to Wellness and Love |
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Writing my way through...
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#193
"no one in my entire life has hurt me as much as I have hurt myself over the years."
Boy howdy do I relate to that, LadyShadow. Hugs if wanted. |
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Writing my way through...
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#194
I told L one time that I had come to the realization that I was the author of so much of my own misery. She was like "huh?"
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Wanderer of Distant Stars
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#195
Thanks so much @ArtieTheSequal - I'll take all the hugs right now! It's amazing, isn't it? "Author of my own misery" - as a writer, I feel that so much. I never considered myself a masochist, but I am really rethinking it, as much as I whip myself especially when I'm down. It's so funny because I never did that growing up - I was such a happy kid with so much imagination - what the heck happened? Like where did this behavior come from?
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Elder Harridan x-hankster
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#196
Completely stole this:
If you dream of seeing many shoes, this is often an indication that you feel you need to take a new path in your life. |
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Poohbah
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#197
Una. That was a great interpretation of a dream about shoes. Can you interpret water? One dream, I was in the ocean (not drowning) but my head kept going under. Another dream was about the washing machine not working. In the dream it had a sound as if it was filling with water but it wasn’t actually filling. The other night in my dream I was walking around a park that had a lake and in the dream I was having anxiety that I would fall in.
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Roses are falling.
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#198
Sighs drama from the party I didn’t even want to go to:
Someone organised a party where we all chipped in to come. 35 people. My friend who was involved in helping told me there was over £1000 left over which all went into one person’s bank account. My friend asked me not to name her. I messaged in the group asking for a breakdown of costs. Saying if there was any money left over, it should be shared out equally between us. The person said only £15-20 was left over. That she donated that amount. I asked for proof of the donation. One person chimed in that if I had a problem I should not have come. Another that it was non refundable. I said I was not trying to return any item or service- just asking for transparency. I did not make any accusations just asked for a breakdown of the costs involved, bearing in mind we were not paying London prices, so everything was generally cheaper. Was it wrong of me to ask? Would you have left it like my mother told me to do? Over this past year I know that I have become quite vocal in voicing my opinions, after years of staying silent. Should I have showed restraint? __________________ ![]() |
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#199
Jersey honey you are so sweet!
Just google "water dreams meaning" You will find many many choices. Arties interpreter was auntieflo! |
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#200
(venting) on phones again. boo. caller yells at me, name calling, etc and then says in the same breath i know it's not your fault. well then why are you yelling at me and calling me names? customer service really makes a person want to hate the general population. i almost typed poopulation which would have been more accurate.
poopulation. there's an una-ism. |
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