Home Menu

Menu



advertisement
Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
iheartjacques
Magnate
 
iheartjacques's Avatar
 
Member Since Apr 2014
Location: world
Posts: 2,200
10
380 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Sep 22, 2024 at 08:49 PM
  #501
Australia?
iheartjacques is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote

advertisement
ArtieTheSequal
Writing my way through...
 
ArtieTheSequal's Avatar
 
Member Since Feb 2020
Location: In the desert of my soul
Posts: 7,595 (SuperPoster!)
4
6,011 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Sep 22, 2024 at 10:17 PM
  #502
Quote:
Originally Posted by stopdog View Post
If I was changing countries - the US would not even be in the top 10. I am looking into ex-pat places right now - hoping it can be a little later than sooner but it might have to be sooner.
My H has been making noises about doing this at some point after I retire. He has no idea where to, though.
ArtieTheSequal is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
LonesomeTonight
Always in This Twilight
 
LonesomeTonight's Avatar
 
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
Posts: 21,615 (SuperPoster!)
9
76.2k hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Sep 23, 2024 at 06:42 AM
  #503
Quote:
Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel View Post
What about Medicaid? I think here in CA everyone can get it now? My friend who is here illegally said she was able to get it.

I think in most states (definitely in mine, despite it being a blue state), you have to be below a certain income to qualify for Medicaid.
LonesomeTonight is online now   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
LonesomeTonight
Always in This Twilight
 
LonesomeTonight's Avatar
 
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
Posts: 21,615 (SuperPoster!)
9
76.2k hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Sep 23, 2024 at 06:43 AM
  #504
Quote:
Originally Posted by atisketatasket View Post
I think you don’t have to be a citizen, but you do have to be at least a permanent resident, which is like 5 years.

Otherwise, it’s the marketplace.

Ah, that would make sense for Medicare. I figured there was some sort of restriction.
LonesomeTonight is online now   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
LostOnTheTrail
Human Feeling
 
LostOnTheTrail's Avatar
 
Member Since Aug 2011
Location: England
Posts: 5,445
13
3,531 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Sep 23, 2024 at 10:17 AM
  #505
In a move that will surprise no one except me, I asked H today whether we could reinstate the weekly calls.

I know I need to work on feeling safe with R again, but I don't know how.
I don't have to work at feeling safe with H.

__________________
'Somewhere up above the great divide
Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few
A man can see his way clear to the light
Just hold on tight, that's all you gotta do...'

Steve Earle - Fort Worth Blues

'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin
LostOnTheTrail is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
LonesomeTonight, ScarletPimpernel
LostOnTheTrail
Human Feeling
 
LostOnTheTrail's Avatar
 
Member Since Aug 2011
Location: England
Posts: 5,445
13
3,531 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Sep 23, 2024 at 10:18 AM
  #506
Couch Workout Club day 53

Some light yoga in an attempt to ease my stomach's response to the events of the last few days.

__________________
'Somewhere up above the great divide
Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few
A man can see his way clear to the light
Just hold on tight, that's all you gotta do...'

Steve Earle - Fort Worth Blues

'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin
LostOnTheTrail is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
LonesomeTonight
 
Thanks for this!
WarmFuzzySocks
stopdog
underdog is here
 
Member Since Sep 2011
Location: blank
Posts: 35,049 (SuperPoster!)
13
1 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Sep 23, 2024 at 10:52 AM
  #507
I am watching my school do idiotic things while the students become less and less resilient. I think that the over eager attempts to be supportive on the part of do gooders is often more encouraging people to stay stuck in their issues/victimhood than it helps.

__________________
Please NO @

Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live.
Oscar Wilde
Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich
Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.
stopdog is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Thanks for this!
atisketatasket, iheartjacques, Jersey 4, unaluna, WarmFuzzySocks
Lemoncake
Roses are falling.
 
Lemoncake's Avatar
 
Member Since May 2017
Location: Seattle.
Posts: 9,953 (SuperPoster!)
7
10.5k hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Sep 23, 2024 at 04:59 PM
  #508
I’ve seen a few American YouTubers move to Portugal, Spain and Mexico. Though Mexican locals arenot happy with the influx..

Americans are flooding Mexico City. Some want them gone - Los Angeles Times

__________________
Lemoncake is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Thanks for this!
unaluna
atisketatasket
Child of a lesser god
 
atisketatasket's Avatar
 
Member Since Jun 2015
Location: Tartarus
Posts: 19,302 (SuperPoster!)
9
12.4k hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Sep 23, 2024 at 10:17 PM
  #509
Quote:
Originally Posted by stopdog View Post
I am watching my school do idiotic things while the students become less and less resilient. I think that the over eager attempts to be supportive on the part of do gooders is often more encouraging people to stay stuck in their issues/victimhood than it helps.
I sat through a talk today by our Vice President for Student Services and it was all about wellness and not stressing the kids out.
atisketatasket is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
unaluna
 
Thanks for this!
iheartjacques, Jersey 4, stopdog, unaluna, WarmFuzzySocks
unaluna
Elder Harridan x-hankster
 
unaluna's Avatar
 
Member Since Jun 2011
Location: Milan/Michigan
Posts: 40,944 (SuperPoster!)
13
68.9k hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Sep 23, 2024 at 10:45 PM
  #510
So the TEACHERS get a lesson in consequences, not the kids. Right!
unaluna is online now   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Thanks for this!
atisketatasket, Jersey 4, stopdog
stopdog
underdog is here
 
Member Since Sep 2011
Location: blank
Posts: 35,049 (SuperPoster!)
13
1 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Sep 23, 2024 at 10:54 PM
  #511
Quote:
Originally Posted by atisketatasket View Post
I sat through a talk today by our Vice President for Student Services and it was all about wellness and not stressing the kids out.
I just grade during that crap from admin.
I wonder if we have one of those type vps - the law school is shielded a little from the absolute absurdness of what the undergrad people deal with

__________________
Please NO @

Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live.
Oscar Wilde
Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich
Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.
stopdog is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Thanks for this!
atisketatasket, iheartjacques, Jersey 4, WarmFuzzySocks
LostOnTheTrail
Human Feeling
 
LostOnTheTrail's Avatar
 
Member Since Aug 2011
Location: England
Posts: 5,445
13
3,531 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Sep 24, 2024 at 08:20 AM
  #512
Couch Workout Club day 54

Went for a walk around town for an hour.

__________________
'Somewhere up above the great divide
Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few
A man can see his way clear to the light
Just hold on tight, that's all you gotta do...'

Steve Earle - Fort Worth Blues

'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin
LostOnTheTrail is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Thanks for this!
atisketatasket, LonesomeTonight, WarmFuzzySocks
stopdog
underdog is here
 
Member Since Sep 2011
Location: blank
Posts: 35,049 (SuperPoster!)
13
1 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Sep 24, 2024 at 11:49 AM
  #513
This was supposed to go here. I shouldn't try to post in the morning. I am not a morning person

We are now in a wet weather pattern as fall pushes summer out of the way. This makes all the animals cross and with the old, arthritic dogs - a fun time to be had trying to get them out to do their business. We all got wet 3 times yesterday and my dogs are decidedly not water dogs. One pushes me into puddles so he doesn't have to walk through them

__________________
Please NO @

Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live.
Oscar Wilde
Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich
Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.
stopdog is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Thanks for this!
iheartjacques, Jersey 4, LonesomeTonight, LostOnTheTrail, ScarletPimpernel, unaluna
NP_Complete
Grand Magnate
 
NP_Complete's Avatar
 
Member Since Feb 2017
Location: the upside down
Posts: 3,874
7
6,411 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Sep 24, 2024 at 02:33 PM
  #514
I think the reality of my therapy with P ending is sinking in now. I'm dealing with anxiety and feeling depressed. His office lease is ending Dec 31 and he has to be in his new place in next state over by Jan 13. I don't want to do this. This is going to feel like a huge loss.
NP_Complete is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
ArtieTheSequal, atisketatasket, iheartjacques, Jersey 4, LonesomeTonight, LostOnTheTrail, ScarletPimpernel, unaluna, WarmFuzzySocks
 
Thanks for this!
comrademoomoo, LonesomeTonight
ChickenNoodleSoup
Grand Poohbah
 
Member Since Apr 2017
Location: In a land far far away
Posts: 1,648
7
1,336 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Sep 24, 2024 at 02:57 PM
  #515
Thanks for your advice, guys, I'll give them that government website. They are in their early 60s, they have looked into medicaid, not sure what was up with that, I think they are a bit too young or smth.

I too wouldn't want to live in the US. I actually gave back my green card because I didn't want to live there. My mom, however, grew up in the US and was forced to move when she was 9. Ever since she has had the dream to go back, and since she won the green card lottery she wants to even more. I'm not gonna stand in her way on that, even if I think it's a stupid idea.
ChickenNoodleSoup is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
LonesomeTonight, LostOnTheTrail, ScarletPimpernel, unaluna
LonesomeTonight
Always in This Twilight
 
LonesomeTonight's Avatar
 
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
Posts: 21,615 (SuperPoster!)
9
76.2k hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Sep 24, 2024 at 06:37 PM
  #516
Quote:
Originally Posted by NP_Complete View Post
I think the reality of my therapy with P ending is sinking in now. I'm dealing with anxiety and feeling depressed. His office lease is ending Dec 31 and he has to be in his new place in next state over by Jan 13. I don't want to do this. This is going to feel like a huge loss.

Hugs, NP. I'm sorry this is happening to you. And I'm sure his having an actual date makes it all too real. I'm sure I'd be feeling similarly.
LonesomeTonight is online now   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
unaluna
atisketatasket
Child of a lesser god
 
atisketatasket's Avatar
 
Member Since Jun 2015
Location: Tartarus
Posts: 19,302 (SuperPoster!)
9
12.4k hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Sep 24, 2024 at 10:22 PM
  #517
Today is National Punctuation Day.

I am sure exhankster celebrated.
atisketatasket is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
unaluna
 
Thanks for this!
iheartjacques, Jersey 4, LonesomeTonight, unaluna, WarmFuzzySocks
unaluna
Elder Harridan x-hankster
 
unaluna's Avatar
 
Member Since Jun 2011
Location: Milan/Michigan
Posts: 40,944 (SuperPoster!)
13
68.9k hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Sep 24, 2024 at 10:48 PM
  #518
Quote:
Originally Posted by atisketatasket View Post
Today is National Punctuation Day.

I am sure exhankster celebrated.
You betcha!

I bin hangin out on facebook where these people, when somebody put's an apostrophe in the wrong place, they put one in place's where it really do'es not belong, and it is hilariou's!
unaluna is online now   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Thanks for this!
LonesomeTonight, WarmFuzzySocks
LostOnTheTrail
Human Feeling
 
LostOnTheTrail's Avatar
 
Member Since Aug 2011
Location: England
Posts: 5,445
13
3,531 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Sep 25, 2024 at 02:14 AM
  #519
*twitching in the corner*

__________________
'Somewhere up above the great divide
Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few
A man can see his way clear to the light
Just hold on tight, that's all you gotta do...'

Steve Earle - Fort Worth Blues

'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin
LostOnTheTrail is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
LonesomeTonight, ScarletPimpernel
 
Thanks for this!
iheartjacques
LostOnTheTrail
Human Feeling
 
LostOnTheTrail's Avatar
 
Member Since Aug 2011
Location: England
Posts: 5,445
13
3,531 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Sep 25, 2024 at 09:08 AM
  #520
Couch Workout Club day 55

Walked around a local garden centre and a few shops with my favourite support worker.

__________________
'Somewhere up above the great divide
Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few
A man can see his way clear to the light
Just hold on tight, that's all you gotta do...'

Steve Earle - Fort Worth Blues

'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin
LostOnTheTrail is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
LonesomeTonight
 
Thanks for this!
Jersey 4, LonesomeTonight, WarmFuzzySocks
Reply



Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
The Couch 146 : The Untouchable, Nontotient, Octahedral, Composite Couch. Ellahmae Psychotherapy 966 Jul 14, 2017 07:28 AM


All times are GMT -5. The time now is 09:25 PM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2024, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.



 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.