advertisement
Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
unaluna
Elder Harridan x-hankster
 
unaluna's Avatar
 
Member Since Jun 2011
Location: Milan/Michigan
Posts: 40,892 (SuperPoster!)
13
68.7k hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Aug 11, 2024 at 05:19 PM
  #41
I mean, humanoids have been making raptor noodle soup for colds since the dawn of fire. Yet Sheldon Cooper needed a reminder to offer a warm beverage? A hole in the evolutionary layer.
unaluna is online now   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Thanks for this!
atisketatasket, Jersey 4, WarmFuzzySocks

advertisement
stopdog
underdog is here
 
Member Since Sep 2011
Location: blank
Posts: 35,044 (SuperPoster!)
13
1 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Aug 11, 2024 at 05:26 PM
  #42
I don't have covid - just been around a lot of people who have had it in july and august - I tested negative and my partner is fine - she just had it last week.

__________________
Please NO @

Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live.
Oscar Wilde
Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich
Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.
stopdog is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Thanks for this!
LonesomeTonight
sweepy62
Grand Magnate
 
sweepy62's Avatar
 
Member Since Sep 2011
Location: usa
Posts: 3,642
13
483 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Aug 11, 2024 at 05:34 PM
  #43
That's good hope your partner is feeling better.

Sent from my SM-G996U1 using Tapatalk

__________________
Bipolar 1
Gad
Ptsd

BPD

ZOLOFT 100
TOPAMAX 400
ABILIFY 10
SYNTHROID 137

sweepy62 is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Thanks for this!
precaryous
LonesomeTonight
Always in This Twilight
 
LonesomeTonight's Avatar
 
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
Posts: 21,588 (SuperPoster!)
9
76.1k hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Aug 11, 2024 at 07:32 PM
  #44
Quote:
Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel View Post
L had it last week. We had to miss our in-person. I'm surprised I didn't get it because I gave her a hug the day before she tested positive.

I'm sorry, Scarlet. Glad you didn't catch it though.
LonesomeTonight is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Thanks for this!
ScarletPimpernel
LostOnTheTrail
Human Feeling
 
LostOnTheTrail's Avatar
 
Member Since Aug 2011
Location: England
Posts: 5,404
13
3,511 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Aug 12, 2024 at 10:36 AM
  #45
Cool Whip!

__________________
'Somewhere up above the great divide
Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few
A man can see his way clear to the light
Just hold on tight, that's all you gotta do...'

Steve Earle - Fort Worth Blues

'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin
LostOnTheTrail is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
LonesomeTonight
Always in This Twilight
 
LonesomeTonight's Avatar
 
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
Posts: 21,588 (SuperPoster!)
9
76.1k hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Aug 12, 2024 at 11:36 AM
  #46
Quote:
Originally Posted by LostOnTheTrail View Post
Cool Whip!

I'm here, Lost! What's going on?
LonesomeTonight is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
LostOnTheTrail
Human Feeling
 
LostOnTheTrail's Avatar
 
Member Since Aug 2011
Location: England
Posts: 5,404
13
3,511 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Aug 12, 2024 at 11:46 AM
  #47
Thanks LT,

I've been keeping an eye on the cathedral website to see whether there would be a WSPD service this year.

They are, but it's the weekend after...and I don't return to in person with R until WSPD itself, by which point it will be too late to have a conversation about it.

I only know about WSPD because of Steve, and now he's gone, it takes on a whole new resonance. Given my new understanding, I don't think I'm in any state to go...

It really effing sucks that with R working virtually over the summer, I feel like I need three times as much support to feel supported at my usual level, if that makes sense.

__________________
'Somewhere up above the great divide
Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few
A man can see his way clear to the light
Just hold on tight, that's all you gotta do...'

Steve Earle - Fort Worth Blues

'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin
LostOnTheTrail is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
LonesomeTonight, ScarletPimpernel
LonesomeTonight
Always in This Twilight
 
LonesomeTonight's Avatar
 
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
Posts: 21,588 (SuperPoster!)
9
76.1k hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Aug 12, 2024 at 12:01 PM
  #48
Hugs, Lost. That does make sense.


Sounds like maybe it's best for you to skip the event this year? I'm sorry for how the timing has worked out.
LonesomeTonight is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Thanks for this!
LostOnTheTrail
LostOnTheTrail
Human Feeling
 
LostOnTheTrail's Avatar
 
Member Since Aug 2011
Location: England
Posts: 5,404
13
3,511 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Aug 12, 2024 at 12:16 PM
  #49
Yeah, that's what I'm leaning towards too...

I think this change to therapy has highlighted the fact that I've always needed more support, I just haven't felt able to ask for it....now I'm in a position where I have to or else I will have a hard time for no reason.

That's part of what I spoke with my helpline contact about as well.

I'm so bloody tired at the moment.

__________________
'Somewhere up above the great divide
Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few
A man can see his way clear to the light
Just hold on tight, that's all you gotta do...'

Steve Earle - Fort Worth Blues

'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin
LostOnTheTrail is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
LonesomeTonight, ScarletPimpernel
LonesomeTonight
Always in This Twilight
 
LonesomeTonight's Avatar
 
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
Posts: 21,588 (SuperPoster!)
9
76.1k hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Aug 12, 2024 at 12:20 PM
  #50
Hugs, Lost. It's good you're able to ask for help, though I wish it wasn't at a time when you felt you had no other option.
LonesomeTonight is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
LostOnTheTrail
Human Feeling
 
LostOnTheTrail's Avatar
 
Member Since Aug 2011
Location: England
Posts: 5,404
13
3,511 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Aug 12, 2024 at 12:40 PM
  #51
Thanks LT.

I have to wonder whether R offered blanket 'permission' to email because she wanted to offer me something.

Email is not the venue for this kind of conversation, though...

__________________
'Somewhere up above the great divide
Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few
A man can see his way clear to the light
Just hold on tight, that's all you gotta do...'

Steve Earle - Fort Worth Blues

'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin
LostOnTheTrail is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
LonesomeTonight, ScarletPimpernel
Jersey 4
Poohbah
 
Member Since Feb 2019
Location: NJ
Posts: 1,346
5
1,288 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Aug 12, 2024 at 01:01 PM
  #52
I took a Covid test last night and it was negative. I went to bed at like 7:45 and slept until midnight. Then I was up for a bit between midnight and 3. I think I then dozed back off until my alarm went off at 4:45am. I feel somewhat better and now I’m wondering if it’s allergies and not a cold.
Jersey 4 is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
LonesomeTonight, LostOnTheTrail, precaryous, ScarletPimpernel, WarmFuzzySocks
LostOnTheTrail
Human Feeling
 
LostOnTheTrail's Avatar
 
Member Since Aug 2011
Location: England
Posts: 5,404
13
3,511 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Aug 12, 2024 at 01:06 PM
  #53
That's a good point, Jersey.

Glad you tested negative.

I thought I just had a cold every summer until 2020, when I realised that it coincided with hayfever season and discovered antihistamines.

__________________
'Somewhere up above the great divide
Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few
A man can see his way clear to the light
Just hold on tight, that's all you gotta do...'

Steve Earle - Fort Worth Blues

'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin
LostOnTheTrail is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
Jersey 4, LonesomeTonight
 
Thanks for this!
Jersey 4
ScarletPimpernel
Wise Elder
 
ScarletPimpernel's Avatar
 
Member Since Nov 2013
Location: US
Posts: 8,716 (SuperPoster!)
10
7,187 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Aug 12, 2024 at 03:06 PM
  #54
I just got kicked out of a BPD fb group. A moderator posted that people with BPD are sick and twisted and I responded that that was judgmental especially given that people severely judge BPD.

__________________
"Odium became your opium..." ~Epica
ScarletPimpernel is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
LonesomeTonight, precaryous
LonesomeTonight
Always in This Twilight
 
LonesomeTonight's Avatar
 
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
Posts: 21,588 (SuperPoster!)
9
76.1k hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Aug 12, 2024 at 03:16 PM
  #55
Quote:
Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel View Post
I just got kicked out of a BPD fb group. A moderator posted that people with BPD are sick and twisted and I responded that that was judgmental especially given that people severely judge BPD.

Ugh, I'm sorry Scarlet. If that was a moderator, it sounds like it's no a healthy group to be in... It's good you spoke up, but I'm sorry you got kicked out for doing so.
LonesomeTonight is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Thanks for this!
ScarletPimpernel
LonesomeTonight
Always in This Twilight
 
LonesomeTonight's Avatar
 
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
Posts: 21,588 (SuperPoster!)
9
76.1k hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Aug 12, 2024 at 03:17 PM
  #56
Quote:
Originally Posted by Jersey 4 View Post
I took a Covid test last night and it was negative. I went to bed at like 7:45 and slept until midnight. Then I was up for a bit between midnight and 3. I think I then dozed back off until my alarm went off at 4:45am. I feel somewhat better and now I’m wondering if it’s allergies and not a cold.

I'm glad you tested negative, got some sleep, and are feeling better. Could be allergies--where I am, it's been medium high the past couple days for grass and ragweed pollen (can you tell I have allergy issues?) Pollen.com is a good source for allergy levels--I get an email with alerts from them in my area (weather.com doesn't seem very accurate for them--one part of site will say high and another low).
LonesomeTonight is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Thanks for this!
Jersey 4
LostOnTheTrail
Human Feeling
 
LostOnTheTrail's Avatar
 
Member Since Aug 2011
Location: England
Posts: 5,404
13
3,511 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Aug 12, 2024 at 03:22 PM
  #57
I'm so sorry, Scarlet.

That person who posted has no business moderating a BPD group.
I hope you can find a more understanding group.

__________________
'Somewhere up above the great divide
Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few
A man can see his way clear to the light
Just hold on tight, that's all you gotta do...'

Steve Earle - Fort Worth Blues

'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin
LostOnTheTrail is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Thanks for this!
LonesomeTonight, ScarletPimpernel
LonesomeTonight
Always in This Twilight
 
LonesomeTonight's Avatar
 
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
Posts: 21,588 (SuperPoster!)
9
76.1k hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Aug 12, 2024 at 04:56 PM
  #58
Covered a lot of therapeutic relationship ground in today's Dr. T session. From handshakes to the fish to R. And I'm feeling generally OK--maybe even good--about it.

What's interesting is that my OCD (partly focused on contamination fears) is actually helping me understand something and not be offended by it. I'd talked to him a few months ago about how in the first session in the new office, I wanted to shake hands at the start, to sort of welcome me to the office. I probably should have mentioned it again closer to the time, but didn't. I guess I just assumed he'd remember.

He seemed confused when I asked him about it at the start of last session, though agreed to do it--felt very awkward though. He said today that he had no recollection of that conversation whatsoever, but believes me that we had it. So he felt put on the spot, as it's not something we normally do (just shake hands at the end). He said it was also that he couldn't wash his hands right after (he'd told me before he normally does after I leave), so he was distracted by his hand not being washed the whole session. He said it wasn't about me, that he thought I wasn't clean or had cooties--he feels that way with shaking anyone's hand.

I actually did understand. I imagine if I didn't have OCD myself, I might have been offended. (Mine is more if I had to eat something with my hands without being able to wash them--if I'm just sitting there, it's fine.) I am glad he told me, though. Should we ever shake hands at the beginning or before he end again, I'll be like, "Go on, go ahead and wash them."
LonesomeTonight is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
ScarletPimpernel
LostOnTheTrail
Human Feeling
 
LostOnTheTrail's Avatar
 
Member Since Aug 2011
Location: England
Posts: 5,404
13
3,511 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Aug 13, 2024 at 08:49 AM
  #59
Couch Workout Club Day 14-15

Day 14 - Three sets of core workout exercises.

- Walked to the postbox to post a letter.


Day 15 - Three sets of core workout exercises.

__________________
'Somewhere up above the great divide
Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few
A man can see his way clear to the light
Just hold on tight, that's all you gotta do...'

Steve Earle - Fort Worth Blues

'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin
LostOnTheTrail is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Thanks for this!
LonesomeTonight, WarmFuzzySocks
Genoke
Member
 
Member Since Jul 2024
Location: CO
Posts: 25
8 hugs
given
Default Aug 13, 2024 at 09:12 AM
  #60
Quote:
Originally Posted by atisketatasket View Post
I don’t want to give anyone the vapors, but I have never seen an episode of the Mary Tyler Moore Show.
Im 37. I remember the opening with the yellow hat (?).
Genoke is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
unaluna
Reply

Thread Tools
Display Modes


Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
The Couch 146 : The Untouchable, Nontotient, Octahedral, Composite Couch. Ellahmae Psychotherapy 966 Jul 14, 2017 07:28 AM


All times are GMT -5. The time now is 03:33 AM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2024, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.



 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.