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Old May 05, 2008, 06:12 PM
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Sometimes my T wears a tie and jacket when I see him during the week... not a suit though... just separate pieces put together.

He normally wears very earthy colors and he is a big turtleneck wearer.

Most of the time he will wear a shirt (like a turtleneck) with a blazer over it.

When I see him on Saturdays, he is sometimes wearing jeans. I love it.

Oh and he has an earring-- a small hoop. He wears a watch on his left hand and a bracelet on his right hand-- the bracelets vary-- sometimes it is this really cool looking silver band-type bracelet and sometimes he wears these two colorful ones... looks like he got them in New Mexico or something.

His outfits are always so casual/intellectual/therapist-like.

What does your T wear?

What is the worst thing your T ever wore?

Last summer he came out into the waiting room in a short sleeved button down shirt-- with these horrible yellow cube things all over it-- they looked like cheese cubes!! WTF??? I was appalled-- I couldn't even look because he normally dresses very nicely and I thought I would burst out laughing.

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Old May 05, 2008, 06:17 PM
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My T is very...hippie-ish (no offense to anyone!)
She wears lots of longer skirts that are kind of flowie and she wears earthy looking shirts.
I don't really know how to describe it, but she is really pretty.
She hasn't really worn anything that is just.....something she should never wear again. LOL
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Old May 05, 2008, 06:47 PM
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I'm starting to think all T's are hippies! What does your T wear??

Yes, earthy colours, sometimes a suit that badly needs sewing up and an ink pen stain on it. And he has longish hair!

Wow man! What does your T wear??
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Old May 05, 2008, 06:54 PM
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My T has buzzed hair. You can tell that he is losing his hair in the front, but did not want to have that as a hairstyle, so decided to shave it off. I love it. I never liked near-baldness before, but since it is my T, of course, I love it. Sometimes he makes funny comments about not having hair. I think he has like an inch of hair. Oh and he's got the whole goatee/mustache/beard connecting thing. I LOVE IT. Hahahaha. It's so..... analyst-like. It's amazing what transference can do-- I'm 27, he's 55.....since when did this become taste in men? lol...
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Old May 05, 2008, 07:04 PM
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Come to think of it. My T did have a hair cut a while ago. And I said, 'Oh no! You've had your hair cut!' He's grown it long again, just for me! What does your T wear??
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Old May 05, 2008, 07:19 PM
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Jeans, casual pants, T-shirts, casual button downs, in a word...casual. I find it very cool and down to earth. Lately I could say more about his shoes than anything since that's what I stare at most of session.
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omg I love my T's clothes! of course she could wear a potato sack and I would love the potato sack because she'd be in it! What does your T wear??

Usually she wears a skirt, kind of full, below the knee, and with a feminine blouse or top that has a design or stylish neckline. Or she wears a dress, usually fairly casual.. like a pretty sleeveless sundress with a shrug. Sometimes capris. A necklace often but no watch or rings. Earrings sometimes.

Once she complimented me on a necklace--loved that!!

She sometimes wears slacks, particularly in the cooler months.

Once in a while she sometimes she dresses more formally, but not in a business suit but rather a dressy dress and jacket.

And shoes!! She must have a zillion. Mostly she wears the ballet slipper style shoe, but also dressier sandals.

I love that she dresses so femininely. She isn't a small woman, nor fat; just not tiny. I also love that she is very comfortable in her clothes; it reminds me of someone who is very comfortable in their own skin. What does your T wear??

I never in my life wanted to dress femininely, but I now find myself with several skirts and wanting more. And even wanting to wear them on the days we don't have to 'dress up' at work (we have casual dress except when we have visitors). Whaddya know, "It's a girl!" lol
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Old May 05, 2008, 07:51 PM
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T wears flowery long skirts and flowery tops. On these days she wears knee high tights (!!?!) that show her knobby knees whenever she crosses her legs - which is like every ten minutes- and mary jane shoes.

Sometimes she wears solid color outfits that look like scrubs (hate those since she is also a PMHNP and the inner kids are terrified of nurses and medical staff).

Often she is in really bright colors. Only a few times have i really liked what she wears. Her office is so highly cluttered in loud bright things, that she often clashes with her office - or it is like trying to find a parrot in the midst of a tropical forest bedecked in flowers.
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Okay, my T wears the following clothing items:

My T usually wears a shirt and tie with slacks and shoes. Sometimes he wears a VEST or a sweater. Occasionally he wears black jeans. (I'm not too fond of them.) Sometimes in the summer he wears sandals, and short sleeved loose shirts.

Yeah, sandals.

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Old May 05, 2008, 08:20 PM
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Often times a long sleeved shirt with a collar and an undershirt underneath. Shirts have been blue, green, pale yellow. Sometimes a plaid flannel shirt, navy blue and white. Somtimes T-shirts. Sometimes khaki pants or jeans. A couple times when I've been on weekends he wore khaki shorts and a belt. Sweet!

Somedays, usually when he is going to legal meetings for various clients (or moi!), he dresses up and wears slacks and a nicer long sleeved shirt, often a sweater vest and a tie underneath. These are usually color coordinated, sometimes green, sometimes purple. This makes a nice contrast to the lawyers, who tend to wear navy or gray. He is the touchy feely therapist guy at those meetings, the one who wears purple! What does your T wear??

Shoes: running shoes, sandals (with socks), cowboy boots (love those!) or polished dress shoes if he is in law meeting mode. (He also has these slipper type scuffs--mules?--things he wears sometimes. I think they are "in office" wear only and he has his commuting shoes underneath his desk.)

He has aviator sunglasses and a really cute kind of militaristic (although I'm sure it's not) beanie type hat he wears in winter. It's darling! (He shaves his head so he has to keep it warm.)

He has a brown leather jacket.

Wow, so much detail, methinks I've been going to see him much too long. What does your T wear??
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Old May 05, 2008, 09:16 PM
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My T always wears a dress shirt, button-down, with a tie. He's quite tall and thin, and his shirts are always too large and blouse out. I wonder if he thinks they make him look larger that way What does your T wear?? He has two pairs of shoes, one brown and one black, and I know them quite well, since that's mostly what I see in session What does your T wear??
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Usually dark dress pants and a light coloured shirt often with a vest. I once told her that she has the lesbian professional look down pat.

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In the winter, he always wore a shirt (often a turtleneck) with a sport coat over it. Slacks, sometimes jeans. Always really neatly pressed. Cool, sort of off-beat loafer things (yes, I know his shoes and socks REALLY well)

Now that it's spring, he wears short sleeved button down shirts a lot. He's a really fit guy, and I'm starting to fear erotic transference because he has really nice arms!!

He shaves his head and has a goatee and wire-rimmed glasses. Like someone else here said, quite the "analyst" look!

We had a good laugh today because I had a dream last night that he was talking to me in therapy about UPS (the shipping company) and then when I went in and was telling him about the dream, I realized he was wearing a UPS-brown, short sleeved, button down shirt. I told him he looked like a UPS guy and we spent a while joking around with "what can brown do for you" and "could you sign for this package" lolol
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Old May 05, 2008, 10:48 PM
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I don't know how to describe what she wears. Kind of a Dress Barn shopper I think. Business wear. I'm not much into clothes, I think I am too busy looking at everything but my T.
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Old May 06, 2008, 09:37 AM
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Ok... my T looks like Tiki Barber with hair lol He usually wears dockers and a short sleeve or long sleeve polo or dress button down shirt during the winter.
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My T doesn't wear anything really noticable. I'm not one to really notice what someone is wearing unless it really stands out. He usually has a button down shirt, short or long sleeves, plain or with designs, no tie or thin sweater no turtlenecks. Dress pants, tan, brown, blue. Casual shoes. No jewelry. He's married, but I don't recall if he wears a wedding ring or not. I'm not very observant.
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Old May 06, 2008, 09:49 AM
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My T always dresses very nice but her style is to hard to explain, it varies to much.
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my T is a clothes hound or horse, i'm not sure which it is. She is thin and has ample breast and she looks good in anything. She used to be a police officer. When she told me I said "no Way" what kind of gun did you carry and could you take care of yourself, she only weighs 100lb, she said yes and I carried a Magnum(sp) I was just blown away, she is a free spirit and will always compliment me on anything diff I wear. she just loves it when i show some interest in myself and dress a little better. my Pdoc is a diff story, very high maintenance, and i have never seen her wear the same outfit twice. she came to the window last month and the tail of her skirt was tucked up in her pantyhose. I had been boohooing the past hour, but when i saw her i just had to laugh. she didn't know i laughed. only the people in other cars. i know they thought i was crazy and guess what, they are right...........pj56............xxoo
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Old May 06, 2008, 03:58 PM
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My T is usually rather formally dressed - suit, unwrinkled shirt and tie, nothing too flashy. Sometimes takes the jacket off. But he spends a lot of time in court doing forensic stuff, so I like to think that's why. Although, he doesn't look bad in it. Once his tie was bugging him and I made a comment about what a stupid accessory it was. He joked that it was an indication of penis length and I mentioned the poor guys who wore ascots. Now, he rarely has a tie on when I see him.

The worst thing I saw him in, though, was gym shorts! He had obviously forgotten to write down our appointment and was on his way to the gym. He was very embarrassed and the poor guy was an athlete and had all kinds of leg injuries resulting in surgery scars. Yes, he stayed for our appointment.

Probably the cutest thing he did was to grow a beard. He brought it up first thing, which I thought was sort of weird. I didn't say much and the next week it was off. That's when he asked my opinion and I had to tell him he looked a lot better without it! He said it was an experiment in an attempt to avoid botox - HA - he was kidding.
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Dresses, skirts and sweaters, or dresses, and....dresses! I have NEVER seen her in pants of any kind...in 6 years! Earth tones and the shortest skirt length was right below the knees.
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My T has the absolute coolest clothes on the planet. I wish I could talk her into being my personal shopper - just give her some cash and my sizes and set her loose. She shops mostly at Anthropologie, and manages to pull off the most awesome outfits. She's in her late 40s or early 50s, and I told my husband that I can only hope to be as hip as she is when I am her age. He joked "why don't you start now?" ;-)
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Umm well my T is sorta old so she dresses formal and like old people dress. What does your T wear??
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Old May 06, 2008, 10:23 PM
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I'm usually too preoccupied lookin at everythin except her. But she basically wears really feminine stuff/ Tryin to look youngish alot of the time. Well younger than she actually is. Sometimes I think her tops are quite tight and Im shocked that she's wearing it. But I nostly notice her really pretty wedding rings.

Oh I saw her in shorts one time and that was just a lil too weird.
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