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May 19, 2008, 11:25 PM
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First off, yes I have been on PC for awhile but needed to change my username. It's a long story but it needed to be done.
Anyway, at my session tonight T mentioned that he's going on vacation, somewhere cool for a few days. So what do I say? No! You can't leave! Don't go... yeah. That was a wise move  Jealousy has reared itself in me once again. I really need to deal with this openly with him later on. The thing is I am also happy that he will get to relax and have fun. Why can't I just say that to him? or better yet, why can't I just make that my initial feeling and wish him well? This is really starting to bother me. He doesn't deserve this. Now, I wasn't mad just whiney...I hate when I do that. Ugh.
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May 20, 2008, 08:18 AM
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> No! You can't leave! Don't go.
Sounds reasonable to me...
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May 24, 2008, 02:17 AM
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It sounds like you have ambivalent / mixed feelings about it. I'm usually a bit of a muddle of feelings when my therapist takes time off. I feel sad and alone, I feel mad and indignant 'how can he do this to me?', I feel pleased for him that he gets to take some time.
It is okay (perfectly normal, in fact) to have ambivalent / mixed feelings about it. Hang in there. |
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May 24, 2008, 10:59 AM
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I usually just say, "cool, where we going?"  Okie
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May 24, 2008, 10:56 PM
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Kim he took care of that for me by cancelling my may 28 session and supposedly they forgot I was still on the schedule...yeah
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