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Sep 01, 2008, 08:10 PM
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OMG I cannot believe tomorrow is the day I see him after 3 weeks.
It has been too long. The separation hurt so much and I felt as though I let him down by not always being able to employ those things that we discussed as possible tools for self care. I cannot wait to see him. I wish I had a four hour session instead of 45 minutes. The irony here is that I will feel awkward and mute. It is always difficult for me to reconnect and his office will look strange and I will probably be 5 minutes late because I will be extremely nervous when I am getting ready to leave and won't be able to get out the door. So what do you guys think I should wear? A gown?  
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Sep 01, 2008, 08:40 PM
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I think you should wear something comfortable. What I would do is write him or her a letter saying everything you want to say to him get it all out. Then make a copy of it. So when you go you wont feel bad if u cant talk about everything. Then he can read it later and the copy of its for you to remind yourself what you wrote him.
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Sep 01, 2008, 08:41 PM
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(((((((((((((((((((( Miss C ))))))))))))))))))))
Finally! FINALLY! Whew. You made it. As for feeling awkward and mute....T just left me a message about this before I left for vacation....the fact that when I come back, the connection might feel different at first. He said, though, that like any "true connection" it won't take that long for it to feel right again. I know you have a "true connection" with your T. My T said that if there were moments when things felt a little different, we'd take that moment to do what we need to do to reconnect. T and I have a few things that always make us feel connected. Can you think of something that makes you feel extra connected to your T? The qi gong? (or however it's spelled! lolol). Something else? (((((((((((((((( Miss C )))))))))))))))) Even if tomorrow feels a little hard or weird, I hope you can enjoy being back in the presence of T, and I hope you can find comfort in it. Please come back and tell us how it goes! 
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Sep 01, 2008, 09:16 PM
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YAY I am so glad it is tomorrow! Despite all the "tools of getting through" I think you did great - and I'm not just saying that. You made it - you got through, and it is going to be ok. Ohly 45 min?!!? Yeah - i wish you could have scheduled more time =( Getting back into the groove, it takes me that long to really reconnect then I am ready to talk.  Thinking about you... kiya
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Sep 01, 2008, 09:20 PM
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do you think this is too much?
:Head-Spin::Head-Spin:
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Sep 01, 2008, 09:21 PM
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Well, lessee.... You were having car work done when he called... do you have any mechanic's overalls? lol
I think you should wear your most comfortable and favorite clothes so you feel comfortable and familiar with your favorite guy in your favorite place.  I'm so happy for you that you get to see him tomorrow!! You have waited so long for this day to come!! I hope you have a wonderful, warm, connecting session that makes you feel sooo good and that good feeling lasts and lasts. 
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Sep 02, 2008, 12:00 AM
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I love the gown, MissCharlotte. Those dangly earrings are the perfect accompaniment.
I am so happy he is finally back. Enjoy your session tomorrow!
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Sep 02, 2008, 05:02 PM
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I'm excited for you. I finally saw my T today and it was bitter sweet. The difference it makes to know your T is back!!! Enjoy.
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Sep 02, 2008, 05:52 PM
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I saw T late this afternoon.
Sigh. Big Breath. Sigh. The reunion was not as difficult as I thought it would be but not easy either. I was able to tell him how much I missed him and how glad I was that he was back--without feeling ashamed. I also told him about a feeling his absence triggered and that I was able to now myself as child in my heart rather than just in my head. Sigh Sigh Sigh. I feel whole again.
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Sep 02, 2008, 06:26 PM
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Sep 02, 2008, 07:01 PM
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MissC, I'm so glad that you feel whole! It makes a difference, doesn't it? Enjoy your T high!
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Sep 02, 2008, 07:46 PM
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:Bride:
I'm glad you finally got back to T and that your session was a good one! Good to be back on schedule
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Sep 02, 2008, 09:45 PM
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It really is good to be back on schedule! Thanks all of you for your support while T was gone. Do you know what he said tonight? Toward the end of the session I mentioned that what I really had wanted was to sit there and cry for 45 minutes and he said, "What could we have done so you could do that?" I mean, this guy is just amazing.
Sigh again, cause I don't know what else to do!
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