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Old Nov 15, 2008, 08:25 PM
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Yesterday went 2 c T everything was going ok i was sitting in waiting room then i guess all hell broke loose. i'm like oh hell i'm getting out of here, this guy went off on my T he was yelling @ her calling her everything in the book. i could hear her telling him to calm down then there was all the T's running to her office. Then i guess 15 min. after this happened she called me back, walking 2 her office i thinking she going 2 b pissed. She wasn't we talked about my stuff that was going on with me. then I asked her why r u so calm after what happen 2 u, She was like honey it something we are train in. I said yeah but he pushed u. Then she told me 2 leave and she was crying.

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Old Nov 15, 2008, 08:51 PM
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wow, so sorry to hear what happened to your therapist and for your having to witness it.
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Old Nov 15, 2008, 08:54 PM
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That sounds scary to witness, I would have been scared, too.

I'm not sure I understand the last part--so she was crying at the end of your session?
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Old Nov 15, 2008, 08:59 PM
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That sounds scary to witness, I would have been scared, too.

I'm not sure I understand the last part--so she was crying at the end of your session?
yeah I asked her that ? then she just told me 2 leave
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Old Nov 15, 2008, 09:07 PM
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((((((((((( Falcon )))))))))))))
That must have been a very scary situation, I have never really experienced anything like that. It sounds like something that needs addressed in your next session.
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Old Nov 16, 2008, 08:43 AM
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It sounds like she wasn't really ready emotionally to meet with you, but wanted to give her best effort to you. Unfortunately that prior client overwhelmed her. I guess she's human too. Can't train the human out of them!

I'm sorry it impacted your session. Hopefully you can talk it out and maybe she can make it up with a free session, especially if you missed out on a lot of session time.

It must have been VERY upsetting to see her put in harms way, and to be told to leave like that.

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Old Nov 16, 2008, 03:50 PM
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So maybe just focusing on her made her fall apart (she was going to focus on you and forget about herself)?
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Old Nov 17, 2008, 11:04 AM
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So maybe just focusing on her made her fall apart (she was going to focus on you and forget about herself)?
I know I Should not have done that but, I hate 2 admit this but i think the world of my T and i hate 2 c anything happen 2 her.
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Old Nov 17, 2008, 12:02 PM
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Falcon, I don't think that you did anything wrong. You acted very compassionately...........
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