[Martina]

My husband and I are still trying to re-kindle what is left of the romance. Our marriage is fine, we get along well and rarely fight and NEVER fight in front of our daughter. We are basically doing just great at being business partners, roomates, friends. Not romantic lovers. So we need to work on that part.

Anyway...lately at night all we do is sit on our *** and watch Law & Order reruns on TV. Eating popcorn or ice cream or various other junk food that is detrimental to my weight loss attempts. We end up staying up so late that by the time I can get my husband to come upstairs with me, it's too late to even try anything.

So how do I change that? What kind of fun activities could we do at night that would be more engaging? I'm talking about 9:00 PM - bedtime, after our 3 year old is in bed.

There were a couple nights recently when she fell asleep in the car at 7:00 and we put her down for the night. So we're sitting there at 7:30 going, okay, what the hell do we do?! I had some ideas but was too chicken to ask (sex) so we ended up just watching TV for several hours.

Long story short - what can we do besides just watch TV?

[bearchic34]

What about some sexy games. They have some adult board games you could try. Light some candles and dim the lights for some mood...a bath/shower together? I hope that gives you some idea's