[Nathan123]

Ive had i think like 9 girlfriends, and im only 16, but they weren't week long girlfriends, years for most, i started young so yeah thats how for those who question that, women confuse me, one day they say i love you and we are forever, the next they are gone

[jerrymichele]

Hi, most kids your age go threw this. Your to young to be looking for a life partner. I always tell my son that school should be his #1 priority.

[possum220]

Do you have feelings for guys.............??

Most guys find females confusing. Most Females find guys confusing. Females operate mostly on an emotional level. Guys operate on a logical level. (or am I over generalising?) Just take a break for a while. Whats the rush when you are still at school?

Possum

[JayS]

Originally Posted by possum220

Do you have feelings for guys.............??

Most guys find females confusing. Most Females find guys confusing. Females operate mostly on an emotional level. Guys operate on a logical level. (or am I over generalising?) Just take a break for a while. Whats the rush when you are still at school?

Possum

For me that is not true... ever since I was younger I got along with females better... I understand them and find them easier to talk too... and sorry guy's, but I even think females are the better sex... I don't get along with other guy's, I never have.

And OP... like the others have said, worry about school first... you're too young to be in a serious relationship.

[lynn P.]

I agree with Jerrymichele and others. You're so young and relationships typically don't last long at your age - most teenagers are moody. Concentrate on school and don't worry about relationships too much.

[Shangrala]

I agree, as well. You're far too young to be focusing so much of yourself into relationships so seriously.

Regardless of the gender involved, relationships require alot of energy and maturity (not saying that you aren't mature), however, most teens are not yet emotionally capable of maintaining what a relationship demands.
And even though you may be of the exceptional few at your age who can, you'll be extremely fortunate to find a partner who can match that capability at your age. Because of that alone, this can lead you down a path of great frustration and confusion.

It seems that you are already questioning your own self because of this. That is not only unhealthy, but is unfair to yourself, as well. And just by the title to your post alone, it seems that this has lead you to questioning your own sexuality? Perhaps, the title to your post would be more accurate if it were, "might go single", instead?

Give yourself a break. You certainly deserve that.
Allow yourself the time to have the freedom that people your age are allowed TO have. Enjoy, explore and utilize that freedom, for it will not last very long.

Focus on your studies. Build on your own plans. Begin to prepare for your own future. You are presently at the age to take time to test the waters. Wade in them. Allow yourself to discover which temperature suits you. And when you have discovered which is appropriate, then the time is right to dive in.

I wish you all the best.
Happy Swimming.

Shangrala

[ADHD1956]

Originally Posted by Nathan123

Ive had i think like 9 girlfriends, and im only 16, but they weren't week long girlfriends, years for most, i started young so yeah thats how for those who question that, women confuse me, one day they say i love you and we are forever, the next they are gone

Girls are not women; they too are confused, and yes, they MAY say they Love then later, Not, they are immature just as you are. Concentrate on your schooling and just develop friendships at the very most.

I wish you the Best!