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Jun 28, 2009, 12:24 PM
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The other night my BF was bothered with what had happened when I was in a deep sleep. All my life I've been known by everyone in my family that I talk in my sleep and I move alot. I say things that makes no sense to anyone from funny, random to serious things. I wake up the next morning not knowing what happened in the middle of the night.
Well last night my BF told me that I woke up around 5am and went to kiss him and said something like, "Oh this isn't suppose to happened". He said he got the vibe that I wasn't really suppose to kiss him and had someone else on my mind. OMG!! He was so bothered that he woke me up in the middle of the night to talk about it. I was dead asleep and had no clue what he was talking about. I told him its just probably a dream and its no big deal. I asked him to not look into it and not to take it so seriously. After he dropped me off he was still bothered by it and wonder if thats how I would act in real life. I asked him if he actually thinks I've cheated on him or something that I would go around kissing random ppl. I just don't understand him by making such a big deal about something that I don't even remember. I was asleep gosh darn it, give me a break!!! |
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Jun 28, 2009, 06:04 PM
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Yeah, that's totally not fair to you. I think we are in trouble when we hold people accountable for what they dream about!
Even CONSCIOUS fantasizing about people other than your boyfriend is not cheating, IMO...it is normal. For most people I think fantasies just release normal sexual tension. It's not until you are actually determined to ACT on a fantasy, or you develop a serious crush on another man, that there is a problem. And that does not sound like your situation! Heck, you don't even remember the dream! (Too bad, maybe it was a good one...  )
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Jun 28, 2009, 06:12 PM
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I think he's being completely ridiculous and wonder if he's showed jealously before with you. I have also been a sleep talker and known to sleep walk a well. Sometimes I say the silliest things. You can't blame someone for when they're sleeping.
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