[ceciel]

oke, this was my first boyfriend. We met at college and he was the first boy I kissed en had sex with. I wanted to wait for some one that I thought was special and he was.
He is in the same group of friends as I am in college. At the beginning this was a very positive thing. This is how he got to know me an I hem. He knew everything about me and I about him before we even were a couple. After 3 months of flirting and stuff he finely ‘dared’ to kiss me because he also knew I never kissed someone so (and I quote) “ I wanted to make shure I really liked you and wanted to know if this would go somewhere.”
Our relationship only lasted for 3 month but it felt for so much longer and it felt so right.
But now 2 months later I’m still very upset. At the first month I had to see him because he is in the same group of friends as I am and in de same classes. But now (just a week ago) started a vacation and it will last for 6 weeks. I thought I would be able to forget him now I don’t see him every day but is still hard. I look at his facebook page and if I see a new girl on it, I immediately check if she is single if she is I get so upset! I feel so stupid! I know because we are in de same group of friends I eventually will see him with another girl. But how things are looking I don’t think I will ever get over him. True, he was my first well… everything. Our real relationship only lasted for about 2 months before he called it quits. I must say the last 2 weeks he became a bit distant with me but I thought it was just because he had some very very big problems (he wouldn’t tell me what). But I hoped that when his problems where over every thing would return back to normal. But it didn’t
I hope someone can help me get over him, please!

thanx allot

[Shangrala]

Awww...Ceciel,

I'm so sorry to hear about your experience.

The first cut is always the deepest..and most painful.
The only thing that I can really offer to you is to tell you to allow time to heal your broken heart. Time is your ali.

I realize this is of little comfort to you at this time, but there really isn't anything anyone can do to help you get over him, other than to allow time to help you.
Perhaps, find something to preoccupy yourself, so that you are not thinking so much about it. Date other people. Go out with friends. Anything that will assist in the passage of time may be your best bet.

I wish there were more that can be offered. I know of heartache, and I know how hard it is.

I hope this helps you some.
Take care~

Shangrala