[BabyCakesHunt]

this is very complicated n long but i will do my best to explain.

i live in canada and my husband lives in the US.we met on a game site and were friends for a long time be4 were started talking privatly.he came to visit me 2 weeks after we started talking and had several more visits in the months to follow and i visited there also.after just over a year we were married and that was almost a year n a half ago.
when we married i moved there but it wasnt able to work.shortly after i got there he became unable to work which ment no money,no money to persue immigration and we had to live with the inlaws.being a very private person and suffering from depression this living arrangement did not work 4 me.so we decided that i would move back to canada and get us set up here and when he was able( he has had to file for disability) he would move here also.
here is the problem

his family ........i hate to say anything bad against them but i can sit n watch my husband be hurt over n over.

[Shangrala]

Baby~

Do you mean that you have witnessed your husband repeatedly receive interference from his family, causing him pain and problems? And if so, how?

Sorry that I can't help much, but your question is somewhat vague.

Shangrala

Its cont in another thread in gen with the same title...

[Shangrala]

Originally Posted by Tishie

Its cont in another thread in gen with the same title...

Awwwwwwww...Thankies, Tish....

[BabyCakesHunt]

Originally Posted by Shangrala

Baby~

Do you mean that you have witnessed your husband repeatedly receive interference from his family, causing him pain and problems? And if so, how?

Sorry that I can't help much, but your question is somewhat vague.

Shangrala

its not exactly interference.its just that they dont really seem to care whats goin on with him.he has major back problems and is in severe pain all the time and has had to file for disability.Because he cannot work his child support is badly in arrears.All they say is"well maybe u better get urself a job son".And even tho hes in constant pain they r always askin him to lift n move things , they just dont seem to care about his pain.A few yeras ago(just be4 me) he came home from work to find his brother in bed with his girlfriend at the time.thya completely overlook the brothers actions and just keep sayin to my husband"have u talked to ur brother lately,u should call ur brother,ect" and they all think just because hes family all shoild be 4given and they act as if nothing happened.....I'M very sorry but this is all wrong !!! but because they r his family he thinks its ok the way they treat him...I mean ,, come on, no one would let a friend do them this way so why should family be allowed to? The very fact that they are family means they should support you and treat you respectfully.And the hardest part is to sit n watch my husband get so disrespected by his own family.I understand he is the caregiver type but when is enuff,enuff?