[JayS]

Remember Jess... the one I was having so much trouble with? Well last night she asked me to marry her I froze and couldn't say a word.

Does anyone have any opinions or advice for me?

[VickiesPath]

Originally Posted by JayS

Remember Jess... the one I was having so much trouble with? Well last night she asked me to marry her I froze and couldn't say a word.

Does anyone have any opinions or advice for me?

How did she react to your freeze?

[marjan]

Originally Posted by JayS

Remember Jess... the one I was having so much trouble with? Well last night she asked me to marry her I froze and couldn't say a word.

Does anyone have any opinions or advice for me?

OMG....that's awesome....Are you guys dating again?
She really loves you then....or she feels so safe with you....
You know Jay, love comes by time.....
What do you feel about it?
I'm so happy for you Jay....

[JayS]

Originally Posted by Vickie in Phoenix

How did she react to your freeze?

She was okay.... she just said to take my time and that she's not going anywhere.

[lynn P.]

Hi Jay,
I'm not familiar with that name - is she the one who went camping with that guy and who has emotional problems. How do you feel - do you want to marry her?

[JayS]

Originally Posted by marjan

OMG....that's awesome....Are you guys dating again?
She really loves you then....or she feels so safe with you....
You know Jay, love comes by time.....
What do you feel about it?
I'm so happy for you Jay....

Hi marjan

Thank you.... We are not really dating but we're stuck together like glue.... she say's she love me and I have always loved her.... the problem is I have always had trouble trusting people and there intentions.

It makes me so happy and I want to say yes but at the same time I feel it may not be at a good time for me.... I am going through a lot lately with my own issues so I'm not really sure what to do.

[JayS]

Originally Posted by lynn P.

Hi Jay,
I'm not familiar with that name - is she the one who went camping with that guy and who has emotional problems. How do you feel - do you want to marry her?

Hi Lynn

Yes, that is Jessica.... and she has told the other guy that she wants nothing to do with him.... I do want to marry her but like I said, I have so much on my plate right now that this might be a bad thing.

[lynn P.]

I think you may be right but you don't need to get married right away. I thnk you should tell her exactly what you said and tell her you are interested, but you want to get stabalized with your health first. She needs to know you're not stalling because you don't love her or don't want to commit. Tell her you do want her, but you want to be well first. I think it's good news you have someone who cares enough to want to marry you - good luck!

[JayS]

Originally Posted by lynn P.

I think you may be right but you don't need to get married right away. I thnk you should tell her exactly what you said and tell her you are interested, but you want to get stabalized with your health first. She needs to know you're not stalling because you don't love her or don't want to commit. Tell her you do want her, but you want to be well first. I think it's good news you have someone who cares enough to want to marry you - good luck!

Thank you Lynn, I will tell her that.... she knows I love her, I tell her that everyday.... I just don't like unloading my issues on her because she has her own.... we're like a mirror of each other.

[lynn P.]

I forgot to ask you - do you have the doctors appt today?

[JayS]

Originally Posted by lynn P.

I forgot to ask you - do you have the doctors appt today?

Yes, I see the psychiatrist at 4:20 so I have to leave in a bit.

[lynn P.]

I hope everything goes well with your doctors appt. and hope you'll feel nice and calm. You have more reason than before to get well - now that you have a special lady in your life. Good luck.

[jerrymichele]

Hi Jays I'm really nor familiar with your story, but I think this story sounds so sweet. I wish the best for both of you.

[Rachie]

i agree with what lynn said!! very happy for the 2 of you just go with the flow, good things come to those who wait....good luck with it all sweetie