[AngstyLady]

Ok, so my bf and I don't get in fights, usually just disagreements-
but there was this one that we got into this morning that I haven't gotten over.
He dropped me off at work with a reluctant kiss and said I love you without looking at me- I just feel like he's still mad at me over nothing (I forgot to light sage after the bathroom)and then he went on about other things like how I should have a change of clothes before shower and always have cash in my wallet and it's just too much to deal with. I know I was in the wrong, but I feel he was in the wrong with all his overly dramatic comments- I tried to diffuse the situation and be quiet while getting ready for work- but he HAD to talk things out- after I had already apologized - this is when he brought up all the other things- I'm so frustrated still- as it would happen I happen to be meeting up with friends tonight for drinks so I can at least blow off steam- but it's like ****! I'm so easy going and I'm not anything like his crazy ex and he's actually old me he doesn't know what to do and might be self sabotaging, but in this instance I feel like he really didn't understand my frustration with me- maybe I'm just being overly sensitive because I might be PMSing, but I feel like there is a rift in our relationship. Maybe tonight things will be better when I come home . . .

[glok]

Hello, AngstyLady.

Being assertive: Reduce stress, communicate better - Mayo Clinic

I wish you well.

[AngstyLady]

Yep, things are great- he apologized for overreacting last night.