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Old Mar 04, 2010, 12:01 AM
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okay so me & my (ex) boyfriend broke up about a month ago, but he wont leave me alone. he has a new gf, but he's still trying to get with me. i tell him no because he has a girlfriend so he tries to say i dont love him or care about him. when he does that it makes me feel so worthless because i DO care about him, but i know its wrong. & if i say yes, thats wrong too. i just dont know what to do with him anymore. should i just stop talking to him or what ? it really bugs me.

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Old Mar 04, 2010, 12:46 AM
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Did he break up with you or the other way around?
Sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it too...Don't give in to his manipulations and emotional blackmail (my opinion).
If he wanted you back REALLY then he wouldn't be with another girl.
Try cutting communication with him if you feel that you can.
Best of luck xx
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Old Mar 04, 2010, 08:42 AM
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Sounds like he may still want to be with you and yet he is not yet willing to give up the new girl just in case you say no, therefore, he will not be alone if he doesn't break up with the other girl.

IMO - I say walk as far away as you can until he decides what he really wants... and if that is you then his behavior will dictate that with his breaking up with the new girl so he can have you back in his heart.
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Old Mar 04, 2010, 09:09 AM
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he sounds like my exs jerk boyfriend oopps :d...imo just ignore him and move on...like others said if he wants you he will leave her and back to u....
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Old Mar 04, 2010, 06:35 PM
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A really bright special person wrote this to me on my forum..

Trust me, if he really wants you, he will come after you and find you anyway under any circumstances....

I think it's very true and from the heart...
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Old Mar 05, 2010, 07:14 PM
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I think you know the answer to this question already, you just want confirmation, so here it is. If he has a g/f and he wants you also.......if he gets you back....is he going to do the same thing to you as he's doing right now to his current g/f? Yep, he will. It's easy for me to say and I know tough for you to do, but I don't think these are the qualities in a guy you want or deserve.
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