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Aug 27, 2009, 12:24 AM
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I just got a message on an internet dating site from a woman wanting to know a little about me .
She asked me do I work and do I enjoy my job ? I think people that enjoy there jobs are much happier people. I have a big family and I love them all . I think that is very important also. Tell me a little about yourself. My reply  I don't work , I hated my job , I am not happy , and I can't stand my family.  Think I got a chance ? I just don't care anymore about trying to be something I'm not just to be accepted by others. I can't wait to die. 
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Aug 27, 2009, 12:30 AM
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 Hugs to you, you deserve them lots..  I feel like you many times..and it sucks, doesn't it? Don't worry, I'm-..we're here for you. Tossing hugs your way~
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Aug 27, 2009, 12:36 AM
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sending you bearhugs
 grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr ((((((((((((((( Babysteps ))))))))))))))))
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Aug 27, 2009, 07:55 AM
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((((((((((((((babysteps))))))))))))))))))
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Rebecca "If you're going through hell -- keep going." - Winston Churchill It's better to live your own destiny imperfectly than to live an imitation of somebody else's life with perfection. - Elizabeth Gilbert Bring on the wonder, we got it all wrong, we pushed you down deep in our souls, so hang on. Bring on the wonder, bring on the song, I pushed you down deep in my soul for too long. - Susan Enan http://igetupagain.wordpress.com/ |
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Aug 27, 2009, 08:54 AM
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I say, to the people who don't get.......... stick it!
We are much too precious to be with loaded with untruths........from others or ourselves...... And much peace to the people who have perfect lives  .......give me imperfection anyday........a flat, polished surface only reflects.......it does not have depth, texture or spirit.......The right one is coming into your life Babysteps......have no doubt....... And no more thoughts of sleep eternal, my friend..........for you have much to do.........the Universe is waiting timelessly and unconditionally for you to notice........ How wonderful you are........ Start believing.........for I do........in you. Michah
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Aug 27, 2009, 08:54 AM
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(((((((Babysteps))))))
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Aug 27, 2009, 08:58 AM
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(((((((((((((BabySteps))))))))))))
Sometimes our truth is what it is. That don't mean anybody else gotta like it.
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Aug 27, 2009, 10:22 AM
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Aug 27, 2009, 10:53 AM
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I think it's good you told the truth. When people put themselves out on those dating sights, they try to make everything seem perfect - but I'm sure they all have skeletons in their closet. They're just waiting for the right time.
I know you didn't intend this to be funny - but I would love to see the look on her face when she reads that reply LOL. What I don't find funny though, is that you 'can't wait to die' - I don't want to hear you say THAT again - okay? Next time don't forget to mention the good things about you! I hope you feel better.
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 This is our little cutie Bella *Practice on-line safety. *Cheaters - collecting jar of hearts. *Make your mess, your message. *"Be the change you want to see" (Gandhi) |
| ADHD1956, Naturefreak
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Aug 27, 2009, 11:48 AM
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Quote:
OK.
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Aug 27, 2009, 11:58 AM
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Quote:
- I know I sounded a little militant LOL.
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This is our little cutie Bella *Practice on-line safety. *Cheaters - collecting jar of hearts. *Make your mess, your message. *"Be the change you want to see" (Gandhi) |
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Aug 27, 2009, 01:16 PM
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Quote:
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• A bearer of a shattered soul and a mind all ripped and torn • I will rather learn to enjoy misery than partake a life of hypocrisy |
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Aug 27, 2009, 02:02 PM
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(((Freak)))
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Aug 27, 2009, 02:29 PM
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Aug 28, 2009, 07:25 PM
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I have been exactly where you are. Funny spin on your reply. I found her note to you to be glib and boring...next!
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Sep 01, 2009, 12:47 AM
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You know, Babysteps...I've found one thing with dating sites. A lot of the people there expect you to be interesting, exciting, handsome, glamorous, rich, have bundles of personality etc etc. But a lot of those people are none of those things themselves.
The ones who don't want to hear the truth, it's usually coz they're not telling the truth themselves and you're most likely hitting too close to home! And the ones looking for a genuine relationship don't have a problem with someone being honest and saying if their life sux or they got problems...nobody is perfect or has a perfect life and if they say otherwise, they're lying! Weed them out one by one, by being honest, and you should eventually find a genuine, loving, caring, non-judgemental partner. Then again what do I know? *tapes mouth* *runs and hides in corner case I just ticked Babysteps* |
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