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Old Sep 14, 2009, 04:44 PM
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i still love my ex and miss him so much
he dosnt feel the same
wish i could go back
just want him back
dunno how to move on without him

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Old Sep 14, 2009, 06:02 PM
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i still love my ex and miss him so much
he dosnt feel the same
wish i could go back
just want him back
dunno how to move on without him

You can't force him to want you....just let it go...and try not to think about him....try new stuff that you always wanted to do....now it's the time....
Also, you don't know about future....experience has proven me that guys always come back to your life....My ex-bfs always tried to get me back but it was always tooooo late....I was moving on already!
I heard this pattern from so many of my girlfriends....It looks like guys want the girl when she doesn't want him anymore.....now you are sad....but once you get over him, then he wants you back....now, he sees you as a girl who is there and wanting him....so stay strong and help yourself and love yourself....
he doesn't want you, then you should respect his will and let him go!
take care
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Old Sep 14, 2009, 08:48 PM
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Best to occupy yourself with other things I know its hard but for your own good keep busy.
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Old Sep 14, 2009, 08:59 PM
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I know that a breakup is hard. Everyone is right. Try to keep busy, and go out with your friends. It takes time, but you will overcome this.
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Old Sep 14, 2009, 10:19 PM
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That is tough . If its fairly recent maybe you just need time. Hugs
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Old Sep 16, 2009, 11:32 PM
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i still love my ex and miss him so much
he dosnt feel the same
wish i could go back
just want him back
dunno how to move on without him
You know its not easy to let go so quickly, its eaiser said than done. I was in love with the same guy for 7 years after we had broken up, he didn't feel the same way. Even though I tried to move on he was still in my thoughts, and honestly the only thing that got me through it was thinking about the happy memories we had, I called it happy thoughts. But eventually I tried to move on, dated other guys, and realized I was waisting my life, dreaming for this guy to just love me back, and I wasn't in love with him, I was in love with the good things, not the real things. I was in love with the past, and personally..I love who I am, and any guy would be the luckiest guy to have a girl like me, and you should feel the same, make your self feel like the beautiful woman you are and live for your self because you can not live in someone else's shadow, wondering, dwelling, wishing and hoping. Soon enough you will get over it, and find a man who is totally into you for you, and love you and treat you the way you deserve. So do somethin for yourself
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