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Old Nov 23, 2009, 09:36 PM
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my friend well i think shes using me i only see her when she wants something and when she doesnt want some thing she calls me some terriable names i dont no waht to do she makes me feel like im nothing

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Old Nov 23, 2009, 09:47 PM
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A person that name calls for no reason at all is no friend. A person who is only around when it works for them or when they benefit is no friend.

It's hard to make friends and sometimes it seems easier to try to ignore negative behaviors on those people we want to consider friends-but it's really not good and it only causes pain.
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Old Nov 23, 2009, 09:52 PM
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redblue...that is NO FRIEND...that is a user. Get that person out of your life ASAP. Why would you want someone in your life that abuses you? you could go out on the street and get that kind of treatment..not from a supposed 'friend'.
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Old Nov 23, 2009, 09:54 PM
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im scared of her though shes well has problem and if i tell her i dont want to be her friend she will hurt me shes done it befor shes tried to kill me at my place one time
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Old Nov 23, 2009, 10:01 PM
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You are still a teen, still in school, correct? If that's the case, don't try to deal with this alone. Go to the school principal (if your "friend" also goes to the school) and get your parents involved as well. If this person doesn't go to school with you, perhaps its necessary to get the police involved, have a restraining order placed on this person so they can't hurt you.
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Old Nov 23, 2009, 10:04 PM
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shes come over now HELP
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Old Nov 24, 2009, 07:07 PM
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she came last night we kinda talked then she got mad and left trogh out the night her socaled boyfriend kept hurasing us by phone mad at me and threating me after about 5 am he stopped and i have not herd enything sence i think its over but now a dont have to be called names
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