[Miss_A]

I was talking to him on msn messenger and I asked him how does he feel about my and his reply was bitter cold. "mygod ur such a b****- i really cant b assed to talk to u ever again so u go ahead an b like that- hav a nice life..." Then went offline well blocked me. Now I'm here all alone with no one to help me through the day or nothing to hope for. He took my heart that kept it beating alive. Still haven't had any thing to eat!

okay........what is there for you to eat???? something that you like, reasonably well??? try eating two bites. one for me and one for psych central . did anyone ever try that when you were small? i did it with my daughters and they do it with their daughters....eating for the horse is Bella's favourite...Stella eats anything that can't crawl off the table, so we don't have to do it very often.....are you ready? relaxed? try it and post back to me. xoxoxo pat

[Miss_A]

Yey! I had something to eat but it felt well weird at first. Food doesn't seem to make me happy, if you know what I mean? But I don't think over weight or dangerously thin. It's just this boy had feels like he's controling me. It took me over 24 hours to eat something again and well its hard for me to eat still. I will always have something to eat but normal strave myslef for hours until I realise it! Thanks for your surport. {hug}

hey, i'm proud of you.......really, really glad you ate........in fact, i think i'll fix something for myself.. xoxoxpat

[nothemama8]

Never let a boy or man have that kind of control over ya you are better than that
Angie

[Wants2Fly]

Like Angie says. He does not have control over you, unless you give it. And why would you do that?

I'm with Angie and wants2. Keep at it. You're in my thoughts.

Ry

[Miss_A]

Aww thanks everyone. I dunno why I let him have control over me the thing is I can always trust him. When he said those harsh words to me he then said sorry! Then I forgave him. I asked if he would give me one last hug and he said thats a deal. Then the moment of truth I asked him "Do you feel the same way about me?" Well he didn't answer he only said aww you can't do this to me not here. So I'm going to give him time. If he doesn't then heck we will still just be mates. If he does then I dunno what to say except excilent. I know I'm too young to know what love is but I have strong feelings for the guy. Wish me good luck! (lol)

[jmo531]

((((((((((((((Miss A))))))))))))))))))

[Miss_A]

I've realised by now that no boy is worth this! So if I can jus get through a whole week with him, then I'm totally fine! Thanks everyone...

[Miss_A]

Aww I at the point where theres nothing left I can do. He's just doesn't care anymore so there I go...all alone again!

[nothemama8]

You hold your head high and look for someone new
Angie

[Wants2Fly]

A British gal once said to me, when I was in the throes of despair over one "lad" or another :
"Men are like buses. There's always another one coming along in 5 minutes."

[Miss_A]

Thats a good saying just when will the bus stop and stay?

seriously... you cant go on a hunger strike because you are feeling bad about some guy that exists on the web.....
you are worthy of someone you can fall in love with who will love you back in real life.
dont put up with the insults...
you are better than that

[Miss_A]

I know & I won't just everytime I see him at school its hard letting go to someone that use really liked before he didn't care anymore! Would he care and I fall?

[Miss_A]

Aww heart full of pain but maybe its better that way?

[Miss_A]

hmm, I really dunno what to do here?

[Miss_A]

I don't know what went wrong with a friend of mine, but I do know it's me. Got so depressed lost a really good mate feels like forever with out .................? (ps: never have that feeling ever again!)

[eskielover]

Miss_A,

You can get through it. As time passes, so do guys...it is just a fact of life & growing up...even for the guys....they too find girls they like that don't want to give them the time of day once they get to know them. One thing you might also want to consider is that taking insults is just a step away from taking abuse. Neither of which is acceptable.

I found that when I concentrated on my life & making sure I could take care of myself in order not to be dependent on anyone, that was then I ended up with someone to settle down with. The more you push a relationship, the more chances that it won't work. My suggestion would be to focus on your own independent future success, one foot at a time. It seems that once we are successful, everything else falls into place. I agree with Wants2Fly's bus...there will be the right one in the future that will stop for you & many will come & go between now & then.

Debbie