1. By not being girly enough <br>
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2. Being too shy/anxious <br>
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3. Being too headstrong. (got out of a progressively bad bordering on abusive relationship; bad for him, good for me). <br>
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4. Being too Dependent (my dependence had grown as my previous BF had worked to get me all to himself under his thumb which left me vulnerable to bad friendship decisions; being too idealistic). <br>
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5. Being too Lonely <br> (One night stand)
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6. Being too Romantic <br> (Got swept away with man who didn’t see me as anything more than an SF highlight)
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7. By getting drunk/being too depressed (I'm not a saint, but I'm still a good person, don't judge being getting to know me.) <br>
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8. Being too open. (met some real dirtbags). <br>
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9. By being too jaded (Rather avoid the headache beforehand; leaves me missing out on a lot in life)

A few ways you scare guys away? Then I expect you likely will not be found lacking for scare tactics. Without intending to be offensive, my first thought upon reading the list was this quote from Churchill: "I cannot forecast to you the action of Russia. It is a riddle, wrapped in a mystery, inside an enigma; but perhaps there is a key. That key is Russian national interest."

But then, if you do not protect yourself, who will?

[Junerain]

I have the same problems, I feel for you, my guess this is a list to help you become more self aware..

((((Lablover))))