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Old Jan 04, 2010, 03:59 AM
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Ok my boyfriend doesn't trust me at all.
he thinks ima turn out like my mom and sisters, I been telling him that I'm not like that.
he told me I have to prove to him that he can trust me. But I dont know what to do I really love him soo much..
please somebody help me so my bf can trust me I dont want to lose him...
please =]

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Old Jan 04, 2010, 10:25 AM
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Hello, I'm new here too! welcome. I'm sorry for what you've been going through, trust issues are never good, but I think you should try to elaborate more if you really are to get any help.

Welcome, and good luck

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Old Jan 04, 2010, 11:00 AM
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What kind of trust issues are you talking about? He can't judge you by what your mother/sister do. Maybe he has his own famliy issues that are complicating the issue. Have you betrayed his trust somehow? Welcome to PC and best of luck.
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Old Jan 04, 2010, 04:52 PM
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thanks I'm new here to.
Well on news year he had a party at his house. He invated his guys friends and on midnight I told him I was going to be a good girlfriend, and 10 min later I stare at his friend for about 2 min and he thinks I cheated on him. But I didnt mean to do that I love him so much and I dont want to lose him. He wanted to break up with me and I beg him not to.
he give me a last chance to prove to him that I'm not like that.
how can I do things so he can trust me again
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Old Jan 04, 2010, 09:36 PM
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thanks I'm new here to.
Well on news year he had a party at his house. He invated his guys friends and on midnight I told him I was going to be a good girlfriend, and 10 min later I stare at his friend for about 2 min and he thinks I cheated on him. But I didnt mean to do that I love him so much and I dont want to lose him. He wanted to break up with me and I beg him not to.
he give me a last chance to prove to him that I'm not like that.
how can I do things so he can trust me again

Has he had a Gf cheat on him before? You sound like a nice girl and trust is something that is earnt I think - after a year of being together I would have expected this to have already formed between both of you - unless there is an underlying reason?
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Old Jan 04, 2010, 09:45 PM
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no belle1979 as far as i know none of his ex gf cheated on him..
the thing is that he thinks later on ima cheat on him but im not like that i dont what to do to prove him that im not like that.
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