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Old Mar 05, 2010, 09:02 PM
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i made an account on this site, formspring.me, its a blog kind of setup where people can send you anonymous questions. for the last 2 weeks people have attacked me anonymously relentlessly. i know they would never say it to my face but its just driving me crazy.
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he who does not feel me is not real to me
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What's wrong with the world, mama
People livin' like they ain't got no mamas
I think the whole world addicted to the drama
Only attracted to things that'll bring you trauma
And to discriminate only generates hate
And when you hate then you're bound to get irate,

can we pretend that airplanes in the night sky are like shooting stars? i can really use a wish right now.

i'm not afraid to take a stand
Everybody come take my hand
We'll walk this road together, through the storm
Whatever weather, cold or warm
Just let you know that, you're not alone
Holla if you feel that you've been down the same road

I'mma be what I set out to be, without a doubt undoubtedly
And all those who look down on me I'm tearing down your balcony

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Old Mar 05, 2010, 09:11 PM
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That's awful - just quit that site. I find that some people love to cut down others more online because they can get away with. My 12 yr old daughter was cyber bullied at the beginning of the year by 2 classmates. We copied and printed all the conversations and I gave one copy to his father and the other copy to the principle. Lucky for us they completely stopped.

You're not dirt, they're just big bad BULLIES. Just delete your account since it's not a safe site like here at psychcentral. I hope you feel better (((deperate&disturbed)))
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Old Mar 05, 2010, 09:16 PM
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That's awful - just quit that site. I find that some people love to cut down others more online because they can get away with. My 12 yr old daughter was cyber bullied at the beginning of the year by 2 classmates. We copied and printed all the conversations and I gave one copy to his father and the other copy to the principle. Lucky for us they completely stopped.

You're not dirt, they're just big bad BULLIES. Just delete your account since it's not a safe site like here at psychcentral. I hope you feel better (((deperate&disturbed)))

thanks so much! i reallly want to take down the account my i feel like im giving in if i do. this is just causing so much stress.
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I wanna heal, I wanna feel
Like Im close to something real
I wanna find something ive wanted all along
Somewhere I belong?

he who does not feel me is not real to me
Therefore he doesn't exist
So poof...vamoose you sob

What's wrong with the world, mama
People livin' like they ain't got no mamas
I think the whole world addicted to the drama
Only attracted to things that'll bring you trauma
And to discriminate only generates hate
And when you hate then you're bound to get irate,

can we pretend that airplanes in the night sky are like shooting stars? i can really use a wish right now.

i'm not afraid to take a stand
Everybody come take my hand
We'll walk this road together, through the storm
Whatever weather, cold or warm
Just let you know that, you're not alone
Holla if you feel that you've been down the same road

I'mma be what I set out to be, without a doubt undoubtedly
And all those who look down on me I'm tearing down your balcony
Thanks for this!
lynn P.
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Old Mar 06, 2010, 01:28 AM
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thanks so much! i reallly want to take down the account my i feel like im giving in if i do. this is just causing so much stress.
Jmo, but taking care of yourself is not giving in...
When something is causing us to be stressed then it's time to look at it...and change whatever we can change.
Fortunately you have a way of easing this stress; close the account.
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Old Mar 08, 2010, 02:45 PM
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Wow, that sounds really scary. I'd remove myself, for sure!
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Old Mar 08, 2010, 05:36 PM
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Sorry in advance - I know this isn't what you want to hear. But do their comments have any truth to them? I know it really hurts to hear people's honest thoughts about you. But it sounds like you went in there wanting sweet comments and just didn't get them. I would take this as an opportunity to think "is this true? do I do this?" and it's really hard to be introverted and concentrate on yourself but this might be a perfect opportunity to do so. And if you can honestly go through these comments and think "none of this is true at all. I like myself the way I am" then just delete the account. I know that usually when I get mad at a mean comment, its because I'm mad at myself, not the other person. Because if someone says something mean out of the blue that has no grounding at all then it doesn't bother me. Just my opinion, something to think about.
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Old Mar 08, 2010, 05:48 PM
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That is awful. I'm sorry they are doing that to you. You are such a good person! I would definetly delete that account. It wouldn't be giving in. You don't deserve to be treated that way! Hugs.
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Old Mar 08, 2010, 05:53 PM
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Why did you join the site? It's just an intense game of "Truth or Dare". I can't imagine the attraction. One can program a computer to ask rude questions and responses, not something I want/need from my "friends" or anonymous people who may/may not know me, especially.
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