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Old Feb 25, 2010, 01:51 PM
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I had my nails done..and the nail stylist recognized my last name. She was my former step-mother's nail stylist, before she passed away. She had a very favorable impression of my former step-mother..but I started crying...how she (my former stepmother) Ill call her (Eugene) verbally abused me until i could not think straight.....and my Dad did not stand up to her either...she would not have me over..while her daughters were allowed over..I never was........she trampled on my every self esteem....

This nail stylist was shocked at someone she had sucha favorable impression of....and it wasnt only me...everyone that worked for her reported lies and cunning ways to tell people she (Eugene) would advance and take their position right out from under them..

The nail stylist has questions about her dauthers too....who were just as abusive.....

I got to tell my story- that Eugene took my father away from me....that her daughters snub me continually..

She seemed in shock by all this..

I told the truth.

It was not just my truth, but everyone who worked for her's truth.

The nail stylist ended with an apology for what I had been through...

I'm all worked up just the mention of Eugene's name again..

Since her death my life has improved and the peace around everyone has improved..

Anyone have problems with snobbiness/utright egomanical attitudes/superificiality

For it ruined my very life............................................
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Old Feb 25, 2010, 02:17 PM
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((Junerain)) - so sorry this brought back terrible memories. That's horrible - she really was the evil stepmother. Too bad she got away with it. At least you told your story, but I bet it shook up your day.
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Old Feb 25, 2010, 03:25 PM
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May you find peace, Junerain.
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Old Feb 27, 2010, 08:04 AM
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Old Feb 27, 2010, 09:58 PM
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Old Mar 02, 2010, 08:08 PM
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Wow!! I could have written this!! My stepmother was so abusive when I was growing up from age 8-14 that I stopped my summer visitation with my father. Then later on my father had nothing to do with me for 12 yrs. She died in 2002. I went to her funeral and they eulogized her as a wonderful woman who was on the board with the cancer society. I cried harder than anyone in the church. I still have a lot of self esteem issues due to her.
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