[isadora]

ok well i been dating my bf for 1 yr and 2 months. it seems we talk less
what should i do so can see that i still love him and he means aloot to me..
i been busy with school..

[Belle1979]

Spending quality 'couple' time together is a big thing I think. Express how you feel with words and actions. It only has to be small actions, a loving touch, holding hands, cuddles...

[Rachael24]

Organise a date night, go to movies, out for dinner, walk along the beach or cook at meal at home Tell him how sorry you are for not being able to spend as much time with him.

[isadora]

Originally Posted by Belle1979

Spending quality 'couple' time together is a big thing I think. Express how you feel with words and actions. It only has to be small actions, a loving touch, holding hands, cuddles...

thanks for the advice belle..
i will do that

[jennaorgana]

you know, relationships ebb and flow. a year is a really long time to be with someone, regardless of age! and relationships are difficult and they change constantly. i afree with belle, just keep having alone time with him,

and of course, communication is SO KEY!!!! so so key. belle has great advice, and i would follow it. everything will be fine! you love each other.

[isadora]

Originally Posted by jennaorgana

you know, relationships ebb and flow. a year is a really long time to be with someone, regardless of age! and relationships are difficult and they change constantly. i afree with belle, just keep having alone time with him,

and of course, communication is SO KEY!!!! so so key. belle has great advice, and i would follow it. everything will be fine! you love each other.

thank you
i agree with you and belle its been a wonderful yr being with my bf
we love each other since the 1st time we met each other =)

Going back through some of your posts puts a bit of a different slant on things, isadora. You have worked hard to have a good relationship. Too bad your friend has not worked as hard to make you happier.

[isadora]

Originally Posted by TheByzantine

Going back through some of your posts puts a bit of a different slant on things, isadora. You have worked hard to have a good relationship. Too bad your friend has not worked as hard to make you happier.

i know i have work very hard to keep our relationship strong..
and u know he still doesnt trust me either
and i dont know what else to do?

Frankly, isadora, I think your friend is using the trust thing to keep you under his thumb. He may love you, but only under his terms.

You deserve better.

[isadora]

Originally Posted by TheByzantine

Frankly, isadora, I think your friend is using the trust thing to keep you under his thumb. He may love you, but only under his terms.

You deserve better.

your right he gets mad at me for no reason :0

[Rhapsody]

Originally Posted by isadora

what should i do so can see that i still love him and he means alot to me..

Guys BOND through DOING.... therefore, I suggest you find some thing physical he likes to do and join him - he will love you for it (i know my husband was thrilled when I joined him in a few games of paintball).

And you can never go wrong here - - -> Cook his favorite meal.

[isadora]

Originally Posted by Rhapsody

Guys BOND through DOING.... therefore, I suggest you find some thing physical he likes to do and join him - he will love you for it (i know my husband was thrilled when I joined him in a few games of paintball).

And you can never go wrong here - - -> Cook his favorite meal.

thanks Rhapsody ima try those things and hopefully it works