[anderson]

In the past couple of years I have had to deal with a lot of crap from other people but this one issue always gets my goat. Have any of you had to deal with people that hurt you then went and cried fawl to other people that could hurt us by their postion of power over you. I am shacking my head. These are the bullies that never growed. It was fun to them to hurt others and get away with it because they know how to malipuate others into doing and believing what they wanted them to believe.
Well this person has repeatedly been an *** to me. Today we went to the aquaplex because the body memiors hurt us like h***. so we went for the hot tub and hot shower. This person kept walking around us like we were going to prounce on her. I ignor her because I am dealing with enough of my own issues to even want to deal with hers. But then I over heard a conversation. She was cring about me. Then she walked passed us like the cat that swallowed the canarie. We walked out to sit by the fireplace to finish drying the hair but what I had heard kept bothering me. That was when I went to another regular here and asked him if it was just me or did people get their rocks off by hurting others then go crying fawl to others to cover their butts. He assured me no that it was a common human trait for those with power issues. I have just learned to ignor them most of the time but How would you handle this type of people? Just wondering if you think these type of people are worth wasting your time on or just ignor them?

Do you experience consequences from the nefarious person's machinations? If so, I would consider refuting the defamatory statements made to the one with the power.

Good luck.

[anderson]

Originally Posted by TheByzantine

Do you experience consequences from the nefarious person's machinations? If so, I would consider refuting the defamatory statements made to the one with the power.

Good luck.

I'm sorry TheByzantine, we were tired whrn we wrote this. but can u pm me this in simpler terms we be hurting to much to want to think this out. If it means we are only thinking about our selfs you could be right we are going through alot right now and are trying to pick up the peaces of what is left our lives. the pain from inside and those that have learned to use the pain againts us. Hurt like heck sorry if we sound tooo self focased at the moment.

Sorry for the bad attempt at communicating.

What I was trying to find out is whether you get in trouble with the boss because this "person" is bad-mouthing you? If you are, I think you might want to talk to the dude in charge to straighten out the rubbish this "person" is tossing around to get you in trouble.

Good luck.

[anderson]

(((((((TheB)))))) life is good when you have people that can make u smile thank you for that. and thank you for being here for us to.

You are an inspiration, anderson.