[ToxxiC]

A few weeks back my wife was informed she could not have children mind you she is 25. she was depressed for a few days then it hit, instant anger but only at me, to start if i even started to talk she will fly into a rage, she has been breaking promises (she never breaks promises), lying, renting hotel rooms, just beyond belief. prior to this we were generally pretty content and happy. she screams she doesnt love me any more but she says it in her sleep and when i have to hold her head out of the toilet because she went and drank to much (again very unlike her) she says she is sorry she loves me and she is trying to get better can anyone help me please.

[Belle1979]

I suggest professional help xx

Are we to understand she blames you for her inability to have children?

[englishteacher]

Perhaps she is taking out her anger, frustration, and pain on you because she knows you love her and will take the abuse? I do that to my husband sometimes. Not because I want to hurt him, but there's so much poison inside and it has to get out. Most of the time I don't even realize I'm doing it until later - after the damage has been done.

She may also be pushing you away because she feels you deserve a woman who can have children with you. This is a very difficult issue for some women to deal with. It makes them feel as if they are less of a woman, some how to blame or some how deficient. I really think some therapy would help her deal with this problem.

[TerminalxDarkness]

it seems as if she is trying to get it out (which isnt working) and drinking it away (which isnt working either). it is entirely wrong to have you as the target, but maybe she feels that your the closest to her, and might understand more. its definatly a cry for help, bc as you said, she has never done this before. definatly some therapy

How are you doing, ToxxiC?