[bluegirl...?]

it bothers me so much when people can't understand what im saying or just wont get it.. *sigh*

well, let's see where to begin? ... someone asked me out awhile back (maybe almost a month ago?) and he'd said that I meant everything to him and he couldn't live without me and blah blah blah.. and, well, i said no.... and then, he ended up asking another girl out within the next hour he found out my answer. This happened to very much tick me off (i mean if you REALLY liked me enough to say all that stuff, you wouldn't ask another girl out in the *same day*??). So, i totally ignored him, which isnt saying much because i'd kind of given up on writing him notes lately..

Well, anyways, yesterday he decided to start chatting with me (via facebook of course; we never really talked face-to-face. not my style :P). And he asked if we could at least be friends basically, but at the time, i was *very* busy with something and i couldnt reply, so i explained that i would "BRB", which he assumed meant i was thinking of what to say back to him (PFF! that's what he thinks!). so, i had to calmly explain i was busy due to something that could not be put off, so i'd get back to him later.

And, so, today I go on facebook to check on something and next thing i know, he's all curious as to what my answer is to him. So, i sighed and broke out into a long rant to him that No, it was too late. I spent maybe 10 minutes explaining it, and his response was "so you dont wanna be friends anymore?". This boy is so fracking SLOW. So, i took twenty MORE minutes to tell him that we will never be able to be the same people we were, and if he hasnt changed since then, i know *i* have and i am no longer the girl who wants him anymore, not as a friend or as a boyfriend.

ANd then he tried to guilt me in by saying he was sorry that he's a bother to me. OH WELL, i dont take time for people who try to guilt me/make me feel bad.

SO, now, i am just ranting on here because, well, it makes me feel better to let it out and to hopefully, have some people agree that when people do not comprehend things when they are said in simple words, it is very annoying and bothersome.......

*okay, rant over*

[marjan]

why bother yourself to explain him? just say a bold "NO" and then ignore him totally....easy....

[bluegirl...?]

hahawish i did that instead it would have been less time, but eh, i guess im bit of a talker so i went into detail.... *i need to stop talking so much*

[Rhapsody]

Rant away..... it will make you healthy for having gotten it out of your system.

[Perna]

Originally Posted by bluegirl...?

This boy is so fracking SLOW. So, i took twenty MORE minutes to tell him

LOL, no wonder he's slow if he has to read all that?

I know what you mean though and just get one-wordey if they're not getting it and then just stop bothering.