I found my husband...then lost him again

I accidentally found my husband after a month...I walked into a store and he was working behind the food service counter! I didn't confront him but took the advice of NAMI and privately spoke with HR and explained the situation and specifically told the guy to NOT say anything about me being there.... well, I was granted a court order for pick up and when I went to see if he was still at the store I was informed by the manager that they spoke to him about his private life coming into the work place... obviously this tool didn't understand what Bipolar meant and what do not say anything meant because now my husband may be on the run again.

I hope he isn't on the run again. Sorry about the manager speaking when he shouldn't have.

keep us posted..I didnt realize that people who were bi-polar would just "take off." I wish you well.

It's something I just learned about too. My husband has confrontation issues so badly to the point that well, he just leaves. He's just never left me before.

In a way this is good because the police are now involved and my court order is state wide so where I find him, I just call the sheriff to come get him and this proves his instability. The down side is if he get afraid enough and starts contemplating suicide and does it, I've lost him for good.

This is a drastic measure but at this point I truly am willing to do whatever it takes to save his life even if does resent me in the end and I cannot save our marriage, at least I will have gotten him the treatment he needs and God willing it helps this time.

I wish you both well! May he get the help he needs and may he return home to you better able to handle confrontation.

Good luck, Lisa.

Can my life get any weirder?

As of Friday night he was on the run and county PD contacted him by phone and told him to cooperate, he said no and that he was leaving the county. So for a few hours on Friday night we was looked for, I finally called him and told him in a calm voice to turn himself in and that he would be safe and reassured that I loved him and he'll get the help he said he wanted. Well in his current state he took at that harassment and called PD back and said he wanted to press charges against me and even told them exactly what I said! 3 counties are aware of this situation and there is an Amber Alert type deal out on him...the cop caught on to his state of mind and we all agreed to bait T so the officer told him to come in and file a ppo and when he comes in they will take him into custody. T agreed to it and of course txted me with this information and how I am threatening him and I am going to be arrested etc... I played along. So God willing he does go to any station in MI like he said he would so he can be detained. He has completely started some new bizarre life within the last month, he said he is on medication but didn't get it from a doctor and it was none of my business anyway. He's back with his family, which is the reason he attempted suicide last month in the first place... so I have to file for guardianship of him on Monday and hopefully we can get him into treatment that day too. He claims there is nothing wrong with him, I'm the sick one...

Then last night he started txting me again so I informed the police and they tracked his phone and chased him through 2 counties and almost had him then suddenly the last location where the phone signal was coming from turned out to be an empty field, nothing was there. So as of now he is on the run in a car that isn't his, and the phone can't be tracked anymore. I don't know how he would know he was being tracked?

It is very bad. That is why I had to see this through because I know how sick he is and it keeps getting worse. My fear is that he's going to kill himself so time is crucial but now that he's off the map it is going to be harder to find him. There is a missing persons report filed and it was sent throughout the state, he needs help.

I can't even believe how things have unfolded over the last 2 days. It is surreal. I mean at least he's communicating with me even though his reality is distorted. I am at a loss for words and understanding... has anyone else gone through this?

I haven't been through this Lisa so I can only imagine how it must feel. I really hope that you find him and that he is ok; I can tell how this is affecting you.

Sending you support,

Rhia