Dont know what to do

Hi, I am quiet depressed. I am having problems with my husband. He has cheated on me over the years with a lot younger girls. the one I know about just turned 18 and he was 39. he works with children in a school and did some care in childrens homes. He has had an alligation against him with a 12 year old girl but this was seen as a fulse alligation. That was a year ago. Now there is another alligation on him with a female child from one of the homes he worked in. This happened 3 years ago and now she is an adult. He denies everything but I am not sure if he is lying or telling the truth. He lies about a lot of things at home and I have tried to kick him out but he wont go. I need help because I don't want this sort of life and if he is abusing children I cant stand this and feel he needs to go to jail kept away from society. Please help is my husband a pedofile

Hello, sharpe44. Welcome to the Community. Allegations are not proof. Right now there is insufficient information to form an opinion.

You do not seem to have a healthy marriage. Why do you stay?

HI, I want out and need to make a move. Im thinking of going to the housing place and trying to get out. He wont leave. I came to England 10 years ago and have no family hear they are all in Australia. Does anyone have any ideas of how to get out quicker

There may be a fund somewhere to get you back to Australia where your family is....hold on let me google some things for you....

I found this for you


http://www.ehow.com/list_6542488_soc...s-england.html

Bingo!! Found what you need

It is called the European Return Fund:

http://www.ukba.homeoffice.gov.uk/ab...n-return-fund/

sharpe44, when you say you want out, do you mean out of the house, out of the marriage, out of the country, out of what?

My suggestion is for you to contact a solicitor, explain your circumstances and find out what needs to accomplished to get out.

Good luck.

Hi, I am a teacher and have been living in the uk for 10 years. I really just want to be on my own and find a new place to live but dont have the funds to move. Does any body know a solution. thanks for you help and posts this is helpful

Thankyou juniran for your help however this fund is for people who are not resident of the UK. I am a resident now. Thankyou though it helps to know there are people out there that are caring and will listen

Hello sharpe,

It must be very hard for you. Where there is smoke there is fire. So many people target disabled kids because they are in the main unable to articulate clearly enough who did what to them. I worked with these kids as a nurse for a long time and there were enough people who were either charged or let go based on the fact that we had a communication system that was found to be strong enough to let us know if one of the kids were abused in any way.

I really feel for you and I would take Byz's advice and see what a solicitor has to say. You can always have a day home and change the locks...

Rhiannon