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Jul 23, 2010, 09:21 PM
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growing up i was bullied by several people.bullied mostly by family members.my mom and sister called me ugly,fat,stupid,worthless,retarded,***** etc.i'm soon to be 40 and i am not close to my mom and my sister.my sister was the worst bully of all.she was miss las vegas and nlf cheerleader in the 80's.i don't really have a relationship with my sister.a few months after my 18 th birthday i moved out on my own.well the last 22 years i have only seen my mom and sister a dozen times and they have not changed any.both my mom and sister deny they ever called me names.they both call me names still and make fun of others.my mom complains that her 3 adult children don't like her.what's to like about a emotional and physically abusive person?the answer is nothing.the bullying has effected me all my life.i still don't get why my mother could abuse her own kids.i mostly feel hate towards my mom,sister and father.my dad at times called me names to.plus my sister was his favorite.my dad died 5 to 6 years ago and i did not cry about his death.at times i feel ok about myself.but then at times i think i'm ugly etc.plus i'm bitter when it comes to my family.plus i envy people who have better relationships with their family.
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Jul 23, 2010, 09:47 PM
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(((UCLAFan)))
 - wow that's really terrible they treated you like this -what a shame. Make sure you don't take any more verbal abuse from them. So sorry this happened to you.
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Jul 24, 2010, 02:22 AM
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Hi UCLAFan,
I am dealing with emotional abuse in my childhood too. You can search for "adult children" in amazon. There are many good books that are available on this subject which deals with adults who need to recover from any form of abuse in childhood. |
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Jul 24, 2010, 02:55 AM
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Bullying is loathesome I had it too and sadly there are always people who want to bully no matter who or where you are. Adults can be the worst at times...
I really hope you find the strength to let it go and move forward...I'm still trying but every now and again I find myself being bullied again and I want to just hide...then I get angry
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Jul 24, 2010, 06:34 PM
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i get angry,pissed off and bitter a lot.
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