[scooter62487]

How do you know when to say enough? When is the right time to discuss things? So many times and so many different situations where you don't know what to do. There is never a right time and never a right way. Even though you may not be wrong in anothers eyes you may not be right and there in lies the problem. It's only a problem when you love the other person though. For, if you didn't love them it wouldn't be a problem. Sometimes, it would be so nice to have someone to hold your hand and say this is what you do in this case and this is how you do it but life isn't like that. Adults are adults and yes we may be wrong at times but we don't have people to hold our hand and we have to try the best we can and move on. Sometimes when you feel like you can't handel anymore the best thing to do is to step back take a breath of fresh air and relax a little with nature and then go back to it. Eventually the drama will stop and then you can go right back to it again. Honestly though, what do you do when you reach that point where your just tired of dealing with it and you don't feel like arguing about it? Things seem to start to appear not worth it and that is the scariest thing ever.

Tough questions, scooter62487. Knowing both of you care about each other is helpful. Being of a mindset to solve problems rather than becoming defensive is hard work. To be able to talk frankly about feelings is indicative of a good relationship. Ultimately, experience will be your teacher.

Be well.

[Rhiannonsmoon]

You sound really confused scooter...hope things settle soon

Rhiannon