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Wise Elder
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Aug 15, 2005 at 04:49 PM
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Hi, friends,
I've been corresponding with one of our new forum members, and we've talked on the phone several times as well. Last night, I verbalized (to her) for the first time about my "addiction" to the man I've posted about in this topic of Relationships. Just saying it out loud seemed to help me see it differently. Plus, the man called me, and after a couple of days, I emailed him telling him that the conversation had stirred up my emotions for him. He responded, only talking about our sexual involvment, with no statements of caring for me whatsoever. I felt disgusted, and now have no desire to see me again, though he had mentioned it in the phone conversation. I also had asked him in email if he was seeing anyone else, as knowing that would be helpful to me in moving on. He didn't answer that question at all. Today, I've felt a great weight lifted from me...with no desire for further communciation with him. What a relief! I hope you will all celebrate with me!!! Seeker |
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Poohbah
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Aug 15, 2005 at 05:26 PM
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Hi seeker,
Good on you. Respect. Cheers, M |
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Aug 15, 2005 at 05:31 PM
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Good for you! Closure is good and disgusted closure is even better! xoxo pat
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Wise Elder
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Aug 15, 2005 at 05:36 PM
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LOL, Pat, and thanks to both you and Oz for the help along the way!!!!
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Wise Elder
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Aug 15, 2005 at 05:37 PM
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Thanks, Myzen, I always enjoy your posts!
You know, at my age, I'm so much more that an sex toy!!! Patty |
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Aug 15, 2005 at 06:26 PM
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Congrats! Definitely time to celebrate. As Pat says, disgusted closure is indeed grand!
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Aug 15, 2005 at 06:35 PM
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wtg seeker!! you will be better off without that kind of man in your life!!
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Wise Elder
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Aug 15, 2005 at 10:21 PM
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Thanks Sarah and Bebop!
I wish I could throw a big party!!!!  Patty |
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Aug 16, 2005 at 11:10 AM
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Yay Seeker! I am
 ! Congratulations!!!   
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Aug 16, 2005 at 12:35 PM
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way to go woman!!!!!!!!!!!
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Aug 16, 2005 at 01:10 PM
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I am SOOOO happy and proud for you!! "You done good, gal!"
{{{{{{{{{{{{{Seeker}}}}}}}}}}}}} __________________ Psalm 119:105 Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path. |
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Wise Elder
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Aug 16, 2005 at 03:50 PM
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Thanks all of ya!
Don't you just love the little "jumping weinie"!!!
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Aug 18, 2005 at 10:19 AM
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I think a Patty Party would be Great!
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