Why?

This post can fit in different forums because it means more or hide more then I give myself permission to say.

Why doesn't he let me go?

nightdream

Since you gave us very little to go on, maybe he's obsessed or very insecure....I don't know. I need more info, I guess to give you better advice.

nightdream, i'm glad to see you post. i've worried and worried about you. i think that he doesn't let you go, because he's a controller. does that sound right? is there any way that you can slip away and get as far as possible, from him? please post again. xoxox pat

I think that Lex and Pat are both right.
In particular, I think he is a controller I am sorry for your pain and I am keeping you in my heart dear ((((((((((((((((((nightdream)))))))))))))))))))

Hang on sweetie,
Take care,
Love,
Fuzzy

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with the others here....so sorry your in so much pain...wish I could reach through this screen and {{{{{{{{{{hug}}}}}}}}}} you tight....
take care

{{{{{{{{{{Nightdream}}}}}}}}}}}} Remember me telling you how difficult it was for me to get rid of my ex?? It's the obsession he was with controlling you. He feels he needs you because otherwise, he feels out of control.

Here in the US, the main advise you'd get is to put a restraining order against him, but then you'd have to prove in court that he has done harm to you. The order, IMO, isn't worth the paper it's written on. My advise to you would be to get as far away from him as possible and don't tell anyone that knows him where you are.

My ex didn't leave me alone for three years! We were still fighting after I married my second husband! What it took was for me to keep hanging up on him every time he called. He finally got the idea that I didn't want him around... and to tell you the truth, neither did his kids! He tried everything he knew how to keep control over me. At first it worked but I finally got fed up with it and wouldn't have anything to do with him.

Hang in there, Sweety. Stand your ground and don't believe any of his threats unless he threatens YOU with bodily harm. He'll eventually get it if he sees that nothing he does works.

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