[myoasis89]

Guys at my work always make fun of my bf (their coworker) they wonder why I have dated him for so long and they tell me all these bad things about him behind his back.

They tell me I am only dating him for his money...and they make fun of it...and this is not true...he isn't even rich to begin with. I lvoe my bf because he genuinly cares for me and makes me feel special. He's my best friend slash bf.

It upsets me to hear those things because I respect my bf...and he is a hard worker...he isn't the brightest or the coolest guy...but I love him...and I don't get why people ahve such a problme with it..it is none of their business

also we don't bring our relaitonship into the workplace...we work separatly and I am front of house while he is back of house.

I don't care about these people say and I don't listen to them...but it just irritates me...

[Rhiannonsmoon]

It is wrong for these people to do this though if you are pretty and they think themselves better looking they must find a reason that satisfies their logic and satisfies their needs to ridicule both of you and the relationship

I can understand why you are so upset it is not the kind of discussion you should be forcably made to listen to and it is not the place to be having such discussion in the first place anyway

Whether they realise it or not this is a form of harrassment and maybe if you tell them that you intend to report it they may just shut up and leave you alone You do not deserve to be treated this way and your boyfriend does not deserve this ridicule either We wish you the best and hope that it is taken care of soon

[lynn P.]

Yes I agree with Rhiannon. I don't think you should listen to them and tell them you don't want to hear it. Do you have a superior to talk to. I also agree, if they think you're pretty they might be thinking they can sway you, to liking them. I would much rather have a plain, kind man than a great sexy looking mean spirited man. Shame of them.

[myoasis89]

Originally Posted by lynn P.

Yes I agree with Rhiannon. I don't think you should listen to them and tell them you don't want to hear it. Do you have a superior to talk to. I also agree, if they think you're pretty they might be thinking they can sway you, to liking them. I would much rather have a plain, kind man than a great sexy looking mean spirited man. Shame of them.

I don't relaly have a superior to talk to because I don't think they relaly care. I've told these guys to stop talking like this...but they continue...and one guy tries to be friends with ameer...but once he is friends with him...he hurts him emotionally...then my bf stops being friends...he's always at wwar with them...they like to builly him.

They say things like...you alsted 8 months with this guy...and they say we are trying to tell you the bad things about him you may not know...and they comment on his looks and everthing like that...they dislike that he is religious...when he doens't evne bring up that topic at work...thye dislike him becauwe he is different...and I am different...everyone knows we both are...

every place I work...its seems I get picked on...or my bfs do...I don't get people...just do your work and leave people alone...