very optimistic findings. never have been a grudge type of person so now i also better understand that my security as a child probably contributed to those poisitive behaviors in relationships as an adult. find it interesting that some ppl with insecure childhoods can overcome this in adult relationships too.
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Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark, in the hopeless swamps of the approximate, the not-quite, the not-yet, the not-at-all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish, in lonely frustration for the life you deserved, but have never been able to reach. Check your road and the nature of your battle.
The world you desired can be won. It exists, it is real, it is possible, it is yours..~Ayn Rand
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